A synchronicity occurs when one of life’s little meaningful coincidences are placed in your path. A synchronicity is created when people, places or events are brought together. It can highlight something going on in your life where you may need assistance. When we are aware enough to see them, we see our lives are filled with meaningful coincidences. And that we have created in the spiritual realm to manifest in the physical.
We see synchronicity around us all the time. Let’s say you’re thinking about your friend, for no reason. Then out out the blue she calls you. This is an example of a simple synchronicity. Or you need a plumber to come fix the pipes but don’t know who to call. Then as you’re walking down the street to get the mail, a plumbing truck drives by. So you get his number. And low and behold he is the best plumber in the world. Synchronicity created these events that just feel like coincidences.
SYNCHRONICITY OR SOULMATE?
There are times though when someone can confuse a synchronicity as a soulmate relationship. For example, lets say you meet someone who really touches your soul. You have a lot in common, like the same music and have some other things unique to your relationship. This person is in and out of your life like one giant boomerang. There is no contact for a year or so, then BAM! you cross paths again at Starbucks or wherever.
This person seems to keep coming back into your life over and over again. You being to feel a destiny with them. Of course you would. Because they keep coming back like a weed in the garden. But is this a soulmate relationship? It certainly has some of the soulmate signs. Or is it just one synchronicity after another to keep you stuck on the karma wheel?
More than likely it is just a string of meetings brought together by synchronicity. Your paths keep crossing because you have something to resolve with this person who keeps disappearing from your life. Do you let them cross your boundaries when they reappear in your life? Are you so happy to see them you ignore the fact they disappeared numerous times without reason, explanation or closure?
If so, perhaps it is time to shut the roller coaster down. Perhaps the reason they keep reappearing is because you have allowed them. But the lesson is to shut the door once and for all so you can grow and evolve in a new direction. This will allow you to be truly available for a soulmate relationship to enter your life.
Here’s an example. Let’s say you meet someone who interests you and touches your soul. Through synchronicity that person comes into your life over and over again. You begin to feel a destiny with them. You begin to think with your heart, instead of your head, as you imagine a connection to them because you keep crossing paths. There is a strong connection to them on some level, certainly, but not at the soulmate level. And of course there is some karma there. There is a karmic lesson to be realized. But not one that will involve your heart, mind and soul to the depth a soulmate life lesson will.
In some cases the karma between the two people is positive. But in many cases you have attracted that person into your life for a lesson whether you are aware of it or not. You may not have a soulmate contract with them, so they are not officially soulmates. But you have them in your life for a reason. It’s up to you to discover that reason.