Are soulmate relationships meant to be? To a certain degree, yes they are. The connection between the two souls is meant to be. But it’s always for a reason. And not just to have a romantic relationship.
The relationship you have with your soulmate is based upon your ability to learn and grow from lessons that present themselves to each of you. If either of you doesn’t choose to learn, grow, and evolve, the relationship becomes dysfunctional. And this causes a lot of pain and heartache. If both of you embrace the opportunity to grow as individuals and go further along your spiritual journey, the relationship is positively amazing.
THE MEETING OF SOULS IS MEANT TO BE
The Universe creates the connection as well as the reasons behind it. They support the connection and meeting of the two souls. What becomes of the connection, after the meeting, is not the Universe’s responsibility. So that part is not meant to be. There are some beliefs that the melodrama and bad behavior in some soulmate relationships are part of the process. But that’s not true. Because they don’t have to be.
The choices of each soulmate creates the outcome and the dynamic of the relationship. We have spoken to, and heard from, hundreds of thousands of soulmates over the decades. And there are numerous couples who have no major drama or issues in their relationship. They’re willing to face the challenges, overcome obstacles and learn their lessons. And they don’t fight the process. They changed and evolved on their spiritual path. And although their relationship wasn’t perfect it was not a melodramatic mess either.
There was no cheating, no going back to exes and no break-ups. And there was no denying the connection. That’s the part that is not meant to be. The Universe gives all soulmate relationships the opportunity to work out. Any failures are due to the individuals in the soul connection. And not to some mystical force beyond their control.
SPRITUAL PARTNERS NEED SPIRITUAL BEHAVIOR
A spiritual relationship needs spiritual behavior to drive the relationship forward. Faith and love must be part of the soulmate journey. And faith and love helps the relationship to stay on course. Any deviation causes chaos. The Universe will support any soulmate relationship that’s doing the right things. And they will aid wherever they can. The Universe won’t support any soulmate relationship that’s full of lower level behaviors and lack of faith. Why would they? It’s not theirs to fix. If you want the Universe’s help and guidance you have to get on board first.
It’s truly amazing to be a part of a spiritual connection like the soulmate experience. There’s no comparison to the deep feelings, level of intimacy and understanding. How can you not believe a higher power creates a union like this once you experience it for yourself?
Never lose faith that your connection was meant to be. Through that faith you will find the strength you need to do all you can to honor your connection and keep the relationship harmonious.