Your soulmate is not sure of their feelings. Why? When soulmates meet, the level of emotion that surfaces are like nothing they have felt before. Think about, how often in life do you experience a new feeling or a new level of emotion? How rare is that? But when soulmates meet, emotions they have been able to control are out of control and taking over.
KEEPING IT ALL IN CHECK
Over the course of our lives we learn how to handle our anger, jealousy, depression and almost every other emotion. Some of us better than others. It was a process that took time and experience. When it comes to emotion soulmates experience, there’s nothing for them to draw from. It is all uncharted territory.
Perhaps they’ve heard or read this could happen to them. But when it does, it seems unreal. Logically, it makes no sense. They wonder what’s happening and why they’re experiencing an intense warmth. Is it any wonder they’re confused about how they feel? It’s not just men who get confused. Women have the same reaction and can be overwhelmed by what they feel for their soulmate.
When a soulmate is not sure of their feelings the relationship can take a serious downturn. They may flipflop between denial and attempts to use logic to get a better understanding. Everything can be going great and then out of nowhere they announce they’re not sure of how they feel. Wait a minute. Wasn’t this the same guy that was expressing his undying love for you the entire time? Didn’t he just say yesterday how happy he was? Yup, same guy. The thing is, he isn’t unsure of how he feels. He just doesn’t understand it.
HOW CAN THIS BE REAL?
Your soulmate may not believe what he is feeling is real, or that they will last. This strong emotion came out of left field. Many soulmates assume those feelings may lessen over time. Even if they don’t, they could fear the other person’s emotions do not match theirs. We can’t tell you the countless number of times people ask us if their soulmate has the same feelings they do!! They can’t believe how much they fee themselves. So of course it’s hard for them to believe someone could have the same love for them. All of this leads to confusion.
Your soulmate may need some time away from you to sort it all out. It’s very difficult to hear your soulmate express they’re unsure of how they feel. And then they distance themselves from you. Many people panic, worrying they will never hear from their soulmate again. They worry their soulmate’s feelings will vanish during this time apart and that the relationship will come to an end.
It’s not up to you to convince your soulmate how he feels. It’s also not your job to help them become more aware of your connection. Doing so will only push them further away and they will do everything to win that debate with you. Let them sort out their feelings and the truth will come out in the end.