Will you always remember a soulmate? Of course you will, and they will always remember you too. If you have dealt with a soulmate that has left and won’t continue your relationship in a healthy way, you can move on from them. You will always remember them, but you don’t have to keep them in your life.
Sometimes you have to let a soulmate go, which is very painful. Sometimes a soulmate must learn their life lessons without you in their life. Although it is painful, it is actually less damaging to the soulmate relationship. Even though time or miles may be between you, the memory of what you shared together will remain for both of you. When they finally realize the mistakes and bad choices they made, they will remember when it all went downhill. It is that realization that quite often brings soulmates back together after a long period of no communication.
It may surprise some people who the lingering memories can bring couples back together even after decades have passed. The soul connection never breaks, and it makes the mind wander, and wonder. The should haves and could haves and what ifs come into play. When the one for you becomes the one that got away, they are pretty impossible to forget. You wonder what could have been “if only”, especially if you are the one that caused the soulmate relationship to end.
If it was your fault, or your decision, that ended the soulmate relationship you can become haunted by it. You now know what a real connection of the soul is like. You now know what it is to feel emotions you never felt before. You know what that feeling of recognition is. You can’t forget that knowledge, you always remember it, and nothing else really measures up to it. You, or they, could meet someone else but it just isn’t the same. There is something missing. Even if you cannot put your finger on exactly what is missing, you know in your heart and soul something important isn’t there. This is another reason soulmates often reunite. They cannot be replaced or replicated, and once that is accepted, the only rational thing to do is rekindle the relationship.
If your soulmate hurt you and left you, don’t make your primary goal to forget them. That won’t really work. Accept that you will always remember them, but that you won’t obsess about them. Allow them to be a part of your past, not your daily life. Accept the connection but distance yourself from the pain. This will take time, but put it in the hands of the universe. It was not your fault they didn’t honor your bond. The universe won’t punish you for things that were not your fault. You will most likely either reunite with your soulmate at some point or you can be blessed with another one. We will always remember our soulmate, but sometimes we have to keep ourselves from digging up old memories that hurt us.