Top 10 Relationship Issues for Soulmates

Contrary to popular belief, soulmates face a lot of relationship issues. In the real world destiny doesn’t step in to ensure a couple will stay together. That only happens in chick-flicks.

Soulmates are not in our lives for a perfect romantic relationship. Soulmates are in our lives to provide personal growth and life lessons.

Many people in soulmate relationships are often surprised by the number of issues, problems and obstacles they encounter with their relationship. Based on our experiences, we compiled a list of relationship issues soulmates need to be aware of.


1. Bad timing. Many soulmates have to deal with bad timing. If one or both partners are involved in other relationships when they meet, a bad timing issue is present. Another could be that the soulmates meet but one has to move across the country for work or family crisis.

The time apart can be very challenging for one or both soulmates, and is a time that lessons emerge. We have to remember that we designed it before we were born, for a reason. That reason is the life lessons that come with the challenge.

2. Bad behavior. Soulmates are not always on their best behavior. As a matter of fact, it is usually quite opposite. For example, one or both soulmates could have an addiction to drugs, sex or alcohol. They could exhibit signs they only know how to be in dysfunctional relationships.

There could also be self-destructive behavior or bad behavior stemming from unresolved past issues. In order for the relationship to grow and evolve, each of the soulmates will need to evolve and change.

3. Denial. When a connection between soulmates is too intense for one or both to handle, denial comes in handy. They can and will do everything they can to disprove the connection exists. When this occurs they can actually block all contact with their soulmate.

In their minds it is somehow easier to deny the connection rather than accept and the soulmate relationship. This is a difficult issue to deal with because you will still very much feel that open soulmate connection. But the other soulmate does not mirror it back but tucks it away and refuses to acknowledge it.

Top 10 Relationship Issues for Soulmates
Top 10 Relationship Issues for Soulmates

4. Disappearing acts. Soulmates are very good at disappearing and can actually do so quite frequently. Soulmates can disappear, and reappear, many times during the length of a soulmate connection. The real key here is to understand why it is happening but also how you manage yourself during the disappearing acts.

When a soulmate is missing in action for weeks, or months, at a time it can be quite frustrating. When it happens again and again, it can destroy the connection between soulmates once and for all.

5. Love triangles. Quite often soulmates have a problem with interference from another man or woman. It could be a previous relationship that has not fully resolved, or a new relationship that creates a diversion from dealing with a soulmate relationship. There are many scenarios involving soulmates and love triangles. Unfortunately the damage done to soulmate relationships through love triangles can be astronomical.

6. Moving too fast. Often soulmates feel they have known each other forever, and feel comfortable very quickly. The soul level recognition between you creates that comfort and familiarity. Additionally, the sparks are flying and you want to feel and experience the connection as much as possible. Because of this, it is quite easy for relationships to develop way too quickly and move too fast.

What was speeding along at 90 miles an hour can slow to a screeching halt at any moment. It can be very difficult for the intense connection to match the logical amount of time the couple has been together. This adjustment can cause major issues. One of the soulmates will slow down the connection in order to focus on normal life stuff. The other feels this subtle shift in energy, and can often panic and feel the relationship is coming to an end.

7. The highest highs and the lowest lows. Soulmates seem to feel and experience everything to the extreme. The good times are fantastic and the bad times are bloody awful. When things are going great and the connection is flowing, you feel as if you are on top of the world. When things are not flowing well between soulmates, you can become depressed, despondent, lazy, irresponsible, indolent and even manic.

It is very important you find another outlet when things are low between soulmates and maintain a level of accountability for your life.

8. Fear. Some people, mostly the guys out there, are terrified by the overwhelming emotion in a soulmate connection. Soulmates must face their fears, as part of their soulmate contract. But what exactly is there to fear from a soulmate connection?

Some soulmates fear a loss of control, fear trusting someone with their heart, fear the responsibility of being in a relationship, fear being accountable their soulmate partner,  etc. These may not be fears to you, but to them they are very real. When soulmates are unable to face those fears, they can either run or deny the soulmate connection.

9. Unrealistic expectations. Many soulmates believe a soulmate is here for the duration and that they will stay together regardless of how they behave. They may believe they can do anything, or say anything, without affecting their soulmate relationship. They may even think it gives them carte blanche for screwing up. Nothing could be further from the truth. Not all soulmates stay together, and if you keep testing your connection, your soulmate may walk away for good.

10. Accepting unacceptable behavior. Because of the strong emotional and often empathic connection, soulmates can lose any semblance of reason or logic. You may find yourself tolerating behavior from a soulmate that you would NEVER tolerate from any person on earth. These behaviors can include, cheating, drinking, drug abuse, gambling and physical or emotional abuse.

If you don’t tolerate this behavior from anyone else, how could you tolerate it from your soulmate? What is the lesson here?  This will make for a highly dysfunctional relationship and one you would be ultimately very miserable in.


Sarah and Sophia are able to understand the hidden complexities, issues and concerns affecting soulmate relationships. If you are experiencing issues with your soulmate, Sarah and Sophia can guide you on what needs to be addressed to give your soulmate relationship a better chance of working out long-term.

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18 thoughts on “Top 10 Relationship Issues for Soulmates”

  1. I feel as though that was written just for me wow .. I found my soul mate love him like no other but my have we had an awful first 6 months I believed in us and I didn’t give us up as much as I should have I feel we are finally solid .. it has taken a toll on myself .. I hope I will have my friends and families support and will understand one day why I couldn’t give us up .. he has done a few shitty things ( always been loyal ) but done actions I have forgiven him for everything and just ready to see our future together. I had no idea how it felt to meet my soul mate and now that I have it’s a feeling like nothing I have ever felt .. I have shivers thinking about it. The most incredible feeling and he is worth everything I have gone through …

  2. I’m in a relationship with ‘my soulmate’ I think so,but since the first day we met we’ve been fight because of insecurities.She is cute and popular and has pictures posted on her ig with other guys…Well to me that’s not a problem but it sucks when she wants to control what I can and can’t do when she does the wrong things on purpose.What should I do?

  3. Mine is the soulmate triangle. I said I loved him he panicked and 2 days later he he says he met someone and now they are together! He can’t face me and carry on this relationship with her so he hides, pops up to check I’m still there and hides again. I wonder when he’ll find his courage.

  4. Hi Sarah and Sophia my name is Jaime Lynn and me and my soulmate are having some serious problems I don’t know what to do or where to turn but the thought of losing him over all of it makes me literally physically sick. Please please help me I don’t know where else to turn. Thank you both so much

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  5. I met my soul mate about 24 years ago, we were together for about 22 years. Two years ago he left to go live with his sister, because he was dying of a Hunington dieses. I have not heard from him since, but I feel his presence on a dalily bases. Can’t sleep , eat, consentrate. Fell that he using my energy to stay alive. I feel lost

  6. Good day 🙂 I met my twin flame 3 years ago but its been a very tough relationship. We’ve both had instant soulmate recognition but she doesn’t believe in all the soul mate stuff. Its been so intense that we haven’t even been able to communicate because of our very conservative family. Now she doesn’t even talk to me much and I can’t resolve what the issue is. Any help for me?

  7. Hi I recently met a guy who I originally saw walking past my apartment and he was a head turner and knew I liked him at first sight. I then strangely met the same person in my apartment and they happened to live there. We started chatting and I felt a really strong instant connection, it was weird. I forgot everyone else in the room and found myself chatting away. I felt really comfortable with him and now love seeing him. We talk most days, but as things have progressed it seems that we are more than friends, but I think he is in denial about the situation. I can tell how he feels from his body language. It is weird as I have been going through a lot of spiritual progress recently and I know I don’t express myself in matters of the heart and this is becoming a problem ( for example I am experiencing the same problems over and over again (I pick men who can’t commit and also at work I have problems with lady bosses) This guy doesn’t seem to be able to express his feelings too and is also scared of relationships and in many ways I think he may be mirroring me. I feel from him I am learning about myself. I now don’t know what to do as I feel as if I am losing him. I know he likes me but is not prepared to commit to me, or maybe he is waiting for me to say, maybe we are the same. I am scared that he won’t be in my life anymore and I will be in pain. What should I do? Thanks. 🙂

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