Stages of Soulmate Relationships

There are several different stages of soulmate relationships.But not every couple will go through every stage. In some cases, the stages won’t be necessary. All soulmate relationships are unique. So it stands to reason that not all the stages apply to everyone. Here are the stages of soulmate relationships, and why some couples may skip that stage.


The first of soulmate relationships comes with a spiritual awakening. They want something more from their relationships. And they want to connect on a deeper level. They’re no longer looking for superficial compatibility. And they yearn for a spiritual connection.

Believe it or not, it’s rare that both soulmates are looking for a soulmate at the same time. Usually only one is. And the other either does not believe in soulmates or has no idea such a thing exists. Sometimes neither one of them is awakened to the idea of soulmates. This is why many soulmate couples don’t experience this stage.


The next stage occurs when the soulmates first meet each other. Regardless of how prepared they are, the initial meeting is significant and overwhelming. The connection is immediately recognized. Even if it cannot be articulated.


The soulmate whirlwind is stage three. This is when they both are open to the connection. They accept it and enjoy the experience. The  relationship moves very quickly. And it’s as if they’re the only two people in the world. They’re experiencing love on another level.

But not every soulmate gets to stage three as stage three. Sometimes, after the initial meeting, one may skip right to another stage. This happens If they deny the connection or run from the connection out of fear. Most soulmate couples do get to this stage though, before they run or sabotage the relationship.

stages of soulmate realtionships
Stages of Soulmate Relationships


Questioning the connection stage is the fourth stage. At the beginning they both allow themselves to get swept away in their fairytale romance. At some point, almost all soulmates question the connection. They want to know if their feelings are real and normal.

How can they feel so much so fast and so deep? Is it all in their mind? They question if the connection is one-sided. This is a very dangerous stage. Because this stage often leads to the runner stage. It can also be the reason why they allow fear to grow instead of faith. This leads to dysfunctional soulmate relationships.


The next stage is the sabotage phase. When soulmates question the connection they test it. They try to see what they can get away with. And believe this is really their soulmate can get away with murder. It’s a very bad idea to let them believe that. Now’s the time to create and enforce boundaries. Get your fears in check and get your faith in order.

If your soulmate breaks things off for no reason, tells you they’re unsure of their feelings or acts out, don’t feed into it. Don’t create bad patterns of behavior. Those will be extremely difficult to change down the line. Now’s the time for both of you to be strong. And don’t feed into or reward insecurities. Not all soulmates go through this stage. Some are so grateful to be blessed with a soulmate they would never allow their fears or insecurities to interfere.


Stage six is the hardest on soulmate couples. This is the soulmate runner and chaser stage. Thanks to stageS 3 and 4, a soulmate might run from the connection. They simply can’t handle the intensity of the connection. Nor their lack of control over their emotions. They don’t believe they’re ready to surrender to the connection. So they choose to deny it and run for the hills.

The other soulmate, devastated of course, chases to convince them to return. Or they allow their soulmate to come into their lives over and over again. Only to run again, over and over again. Again, not all soulmates go through this stage. But most experience this stage at some point in their relationship. How long the soulmate separation lasts, and the damage it causes, is up to the couple and the choices they make.


This is where the soulmates learn their lessons, regardless of wether they do it together, or apart. Every soulmate couple has something left to learn, or they would be twin flames. At some point they have to learn those lessons or they cannot get to stage 8 which is…..


Stage 8 is when the lessons are applied. The couple has risen above lower level emotions, thoughts, and behaviors. They’re a couple with strength and power. They’re grateful for the connection and can get through anything together. Their relationship is harmonious and equally balanced.

What have been your experiences in the stages of soulmate relationships? What stage do you find yourself currently in? We would love to hear from you in our comments section.

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6 thoughts on “Stages of Soulmate Relationships”

  1. I am in stage 6. He ran, we were talking and so close to getting back together, and now he ran again. Says he’s uncomfortable with how comfortable I am and that the timing isn’t right… Iam so depressed.

  2. I’m definitely in stages 5/6 simultaneously…is that possible ? We both agree we’re soulmates. The one. We both believe there will never be anything like this relationship with anyone else…we’ve even broken heartedly discussed ,visiting or dating while not living together if we can get things right.. right now I am
    In that big #7 stage. Ending of 6 since my hubby is the runner.. I packed two bags of his belongings and had them sent to him.. how long to wait is what I’m wondering this time.. we’ve been separated for 5 days (longest period in 8 years). Once a month for the past year this has been going on. I can’t even smile at him without a fight.. bewildering but at the same time I know exactly how he feels and why he is acting this way. But does that excuse it? I have to say NO for the change to come. He’s stubborn and fighting hisself..

    • thank you for sharing your story! and it does sound like you’re making some progress and these things do take time to resolve.

  3. My soulmate deny the connection. Even I know we are connected and meant. He deny that he have emotions and feelings towards me even if his reaction state different. He run away and still come back. So many times and everytime I just handle him with love and care. But the last time he hurt me so bad because he sabotage the feelings and said things that hurted. But i still love him


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