Soulmate separation anxiety is one of the hardest things to deal with in a soulmate relationship. More than likely, you have waited a long time to find your soulmate. They only seem to arrive after periods of personal growth. We have always said the best way to meet your soulmate it focus on yourself and your life lessons. But then it happens. You meet, stars collide. And you begin a relationship with the person who you know, with a doubt, is your soulmate.
IT’S ALWAYS GREAT IN THE BEGINNING
For a time, everything goes well between the two of you. You spend a lot of time together. You talk daily, you text hourly. And you both enjoy a lot of the same hobbies and activities. Even though you spend a lot of time communicating with each other, you have a telepathic connection. And you are so connected you can think each others thoughts and complete each others sentences. There are times when laying in bed you’re convinced your hearts beat in sync as you feel the love tonight. Then again, Elton John says it best:
There’s a time for everyone if they only learn
That the twisting kaleidoscope moves us all in turn
There’s a rhyme and reason to the wild outdoors
When the heart of this star-crossed voyager beats in time with yours
THEN SOMETHING GOES HORRIBLY WRONG
And then, it happens. Out of nowhere your soulmate has to take a break in the relationship. He has the opportunity to be promoted to a really great position at work. But for several months it will mean long hours and working on weekends. You foresee a lonely future ahead as you anticipate what life will be like without your soulmate by your side.
As the time approaches you put on your brave game face. And you know you will be spending the last weekend with him for a while. You do your best to make it special by making his favorite meal and baking a cake. You wear his favorite lingerie with the promise of kick-ass sex. Even though you have a great time with it, you can’t help but prepare for a bad case of soulmate separation anxiety. You hope this promotion will be worth it because right now you are convinced it is going to ruin your life and your love.
GET CONTROL OF YOURSELF BEFORE YOU GO OFF THE DEEP END
Before you allow yourself to go down the path of soulmate separation anxiety, stop. This is your challenge. Believe it or not, this is part of the soulmate contract the two of you made. This is one of the soulmate crisis points for a soulmate relationship. You are being shown by the Universe you must grow and evolve. Sure it is painful to be apart from your soulmate, especially to one you have such a strong connection to. But that is just it, isn’t it? Isn’t your connection, by nature of the soulmate relationship, so strong that it can withstand this period of separation? Be happy your guy is going off to create a better future for himself!
Soulmate relationships are about unconditional love. When we truly love someone unconditionally, we allow that person by nature of our love for them, to do what they need to do grow, evolve, transform or be happy. It is the very nature of a true soulmate relationship. So while the soulmate separation anxiety can make you feel threatened that your soulmate is not with you, not as connected to you or not as communicative with you as they have been in the past, the unconditional love you feel for that soul should be strong enough to help you see and know this is yet just another one of those challenges that come along in soulmate relationships. Whoever said soulmate relationships would be easy? Certainly not us!!! As a matter of fact, you can read about how difficult they are in Why Are Soulmate Relationships So Difficult?
Originally posted on June 20, 2013 @ 3:36 pm