Soulmate runners are fairly common in soulmate relationships. Many people are unaware of soulmate runners.
And they’re caught off guard when their soulmate runs.
WHAT ARE SOULMATE RUNNERS?
For varying reasons, soulmates freak out and distance themselves from their soulmate. Sometimes it’s because they are not ready to accept the connection. Or they may reject even the idea of soulmates. Another reason is because they’re too overwhelmed by the connection itself, even if they accept it exists. They experience a lack of control over their emotions and thoughts. So they think blocking out their soulmate will make the connection go away.
One of the main reasons a soulmate can pull a runner is because they don’t want to go through the personal growth inherent in soulmate relationships. Since soulmates mirror each other, the soulmate encounter reveals things about themselves,or their lifestyle, they need to change. They resist making changes and instead run like hell from a soulmate connection.
The reasons for soulmate runners are endless. It really depends on the couple and the details of their soulmate blueprint. This blueprint defines the lessons and experiences required from this union. Don’t be surprised if your soulmate runs away when you least expect it.
RUNNING AND GHOSTING GO HAND IN HAND
And it WILL be when you least expect it. Everything will be going great, with no arguing at all. The relationship is drama free and moving along smoothly. They were saying all the right things, but out of nowhere vanish into thin air.
You will be ghosted by your soulmate. They won’t text or call you back. And they will probably block you on social media. It will appear as if they’re trying to erase your existence in their life. This is one of the most challenging situations for many soulmates.
The one who is ghosted is consumed with anxiety wondering what they did or said wrong to create this. They worry they will never hear from their soulmate again and deal with heartbreak and emotional devastation. Were they being played or lied to the entire time? They feel stupid for falling so hard and believing everything was perfect. Obsessing about it daily pushes them into depression.
WHAT YOU CAN SHOULD DO ABOUT IT
You are not alone. This is not a rare occurrence. It’s not the time for you to freak out and do something stupid. This is not the time to force a meeting or to try to convince them of anything. And please don’t chase after them. This is a time for you to do as little as possible. Or you make it worse, even if you think it could make it better. The bottom line is, you can’t.
A soulmate runner has their own issues to deal with. They’re choosing to deal with them without you. That’s ok. Sometimes the lessons required by the universe have to be learned when we’re alone. Let them do what they need to do. Focus on your lessons, and always, ALWAYS retain your dignity.
The time soulmates spend apart really can set the stage for the relationship they can have in the future. Just because your soulmate ran away does not mean you won’t hear from them again. That is rarely the case. You need to prepare yourself for when they do return because letting them back into your life with no questions asked or consequences can be a big huge mistake.
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