Soulmate rejection is a very common occurrence and happens for many different reasons. One of the top reasons for soulmate rejection is because one, or both, of the soulmates cannot handle being out of control with their emotions. The level of vulnerability they are suddenly facing is simply too much for them. The believe they are taking too great a risk, so in an effort to regain control they resort to soulmate rejection.
They may stop talking to their soulmate entirely. They refuse to say anything or respond to anything. They will block their soulmate from their phones, email, and all social media. They, of course, will not speak to them in person either. And if they do, they will either be cold as ice, or incredibly hostile and nasty. This can be devastating and frustrating to the other soulmate.
To reject a soulmate is to reject the spiritual connection and bond between them. They will act as if there was nothing special there, and that they truly do not feel the same way their soulmate feels towards them. They will say there is no connection, and that it is all one-sided. They will push them away and withdraw as far as they can.
In cases like this, the best thing to do, which for some reason most people don’t do, is to leave them the hell alone. You cannot fix this or change this. It is not within your power. It lies entirely with them. In the soulmate mirror, you are both trying to gain control, and in the end, you are both wasting your time. They need to let go of wanting to be in control, and so do you. Until you learn your lesson and leave them be, they won’t learn theirs, so knock it off. We understand it is hard, but you need to understand you are making things harder on yourself.
Another example of soulmate rejection is when one feels the need to test the connection. They will constantly test the strength of the bond by doing the worst things possible. They may lie about big things, like being in another relationship. They can also lie about every little thing imaginable such as what they had for dinner!! They may go over the top ,as soulmates often do, and say the most hurtful and horrible things, pick fights, and act like a drama queen or king. They may cheat, go back to an ex that they hate to continue a dysfunctional relationship. All these things they do are tests to see what they can get away with.
If you let them get away with it, you both FAIL. The relationship FAILS. So, of course you realize you have to pass these tests by putting a boot up their ass. Set the bar high and keep it high, otherwise you will wind up in a soulmate relationship where you wind up feeling sad,rejection, misery, anger, and frustration.