Soulmate drama happens in for many soulmate couples. If the couple doesn’t deal with strong emotions properly, there will be tons of drama and chaos. Soulmate relationships are not like romance novels and fairy tales for most couples.
SOULMATE RELATIONSHIPS ARE FAR FROM PERFECT
Many soulmates expect smooth sailing relationships where everything clicks along perfectly. But it seldom it happens this way. Instead they get something that resembles a nightmare. They didn’t expect the acting out, fighting, denial or the obstacles and challenges. They believe if this was the universe’s great plan for their lives, the plan would guarantee a positive, happy ending. Many people who are experiencing soulmate drama believe the universe is actually punishing them. They ask us what could they did that was so bad the universe brought this heartache into their lives.
Why does the universe bring soulmates that come with so much drama? Does something that can make us so happy, need to bring so much misery? Why does the universe’s plan turn out so badly? Couldn’t they have picked a soulmate who didn’t come with tons of drama?
The universe did select and choose a soulmate for you, and you for them. The universe controls that choice by making sure you cross paths to establish your connection. And then the universe backs off. It’s up to each of you to create the soulmate relationship. Sadly, many, if not most, create one with drama.
WHY SOUL CONNECTIONS ARE DRAMA FILLED
So why are these relationships often filled with soulmate drama? Well it’s the intense emotions and longing that supports the creation of soulmate drama. The emotion of love is not the cause of drama in soulmate relationships. But it is fear. Why would a couple experiencing such a connection be filled with fear instead of faith? Soulmate relationships are filled with triggers that set off deep-rooted insecurities and issues we have buried or chosen to ignore. If we don’t embrace what we need to change, we open the door to negativity and drama.
For instance, let’s say your soulmate has trust issues. Upon meeting they feel the instant connection and are aware there is something special between you. They may even acknowledge you are soulmates. You might think that should help them overcome their trust issues, right? Yes and no. If they have faith in the connection, they trust the connection and it is easier for them to trust you. This may be one of the lessons the universe wants them to learn and what needs to be addressed for their personal growth. If on the other hand they don’t have faith in the connection, they won’t trust the connection. But they will fear it. As that fear grows, their ability to distrust you grows, and the drama grows.
With all soulmate relationships a certain amount of drama can be expected and is no cause for alarm. If a soulmate relationship has more drama than a reality show, it’s time to do some damage control. The less drama in your soulmate relationship, the happier you both will be. Because you are caught up in the drama, you may not be able to see your way out of it. We can help you steer clear of drama and get your relationship on the right track.