Soulmate break-ups are difficult to deal with, even for the strongest of souls. It can and will feel like the worst pain you’ve ever gone through in your life. You may find you can’t eat, sleep or even think straight. All you seem to focus on is the pain you feel. You may feel so debilitated you let other areas of your life get out of control. Because all you can think about is your soulmate and how you wish things could be different between you. Unfortunately, your soulmate relationship has ended.
WHERE DID IT GO WRONG
You may try to understand where the whole thing went wrong, and find yourself lamenting over what could have been. Try to understand that no matter how bad it is right now, a soulmate break-up may be only temporary. You would be amazed by how many soulmates have been driven to the brink of total disaster, only to reconcile and make it work.
Don’t think you’re not soulmates because you are experiencing tough times. Soulmates are no stranger to tough times. There are less soulmate couples out there that have never had serious drama between them, because most soulmate couples have. Soulmate break-ups occur all the time.
STAY STILL STAY QUIET
No one wants to be separated from their soulmate for a long time. In your emotional state you may think you know what you should do to reunite with your soulmate. On the other hand, you may be dead wrong. Because you’re using your heart and not your head. You don’t want to do anything to make your break-up last longer. And you certainly do not want to make the situation between the two of you any worse. You should not force things right now. Allow your soulmate to have some space. And don’t try to control the situation. They may be out of control with their emotions, their thoughts or their behavior. That’s not something you can take control of.
What is in your control is what you do in the interim. Don’t allow your job, family, finances and your health fall apart. Let yourself feel like you’re at least in control of your own life and your own choices. Please try, as difficult as it might be, not to fall into soulmate obsession. It does neither of you any good to fall apart completely, and for your life to get out of control. If wont help you if you need to move on alone, and it will not help you as a couple if you get back together.