Moving too fast with a soulmate may be something you can’t prevent. Due to the strong connection and magical chemistry, it stands to reason these relationships move forward quickly. Since there’s a feeling of already knowing this person, and the ease with which they communicate, soulmates get serious very fast. With a soulmate it is really hard, if not impossible, to take it slowly. Let’s face it, when something feels so right who wants to go slow? That is like eating only a spoonful of ice cream when you can have the entire cup.
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When soulmates move too fast, reason stands they should expect to stall at some point. When you come out of the whirlwind you have to look around to see how the dust settles. You have to get back to real life and pick up what you dropped to spend time with your soulmate.
When soulmates enter our lives they can envelop our entire lives. We put off things we were supposed to do. We back off from our friends and family because we are spending so much time with our soulmate. And we slack off a bit at work to daydream about them.
All these things we do happily because we enjoy time with our soulmate. Eventually, we have to deal with things we’ve been putting off. We have to find a way to incorporate a soulmate into our lives. Otherwise our lives will suffer, which will then affect the relationship.
IT’S OK TO SLOW DOWN
It is all about finding a balance. When we find that balance, everything is in sync and moves like a well-oiled machine. If we’re off-balance, everything goes haywire. Don’t take it as a bad sign, or question your soulmate relationship, if there’s an adjustment period. Soulmates set the bar so high with marathon phone calls and spending countless hours together in the beginning. There will come a time when a happy medium will have to be reached in order to keep the balance in our lives.
If your soulmate cuts down on how much you communicate, don’t fret unnecessarily. In order to talk with you as much as they did, they may have put off doing a work project they and now have to focus on it. It’s not always persona. Sometimes it’s just creating a new normal.
Now if they go to no contact at all there’s something else going on. Perhaps your soulmate has decided to be a runner because they’re battling this connection and freaked out. This also happens because of moving too fast. Later on, they struggle with the fact that it moved so fast and are wonder if it was real or fantasy. That is for them to work out, either with you or on their own.
So keep in mind that while moving too fast with a soulmate is normal, an adjustment period is normal as well.