Is your soulmate the love of your life? Is a soulmate and the love of your life the same exact thing? If you have met your soulmate, they will be the love of your life. That’s not to say you could not love anyone before, or after. But a soulmate will always be significant.
I NEVER KNEW LOVE LIKE THIS BEFORE
It’s safe to say you will never love anyone the same way, or on the same level, as you do a soulmate. You’ll let things pass with a soulmate you would never let anyone else get away with. And you’ll find yourself doing and saying things with a soulmate you’ve never done before or since.
When you’re connected to another human being as soulmates are, the bond is unbreakable. They get you and they’re truly a part of you. You may have been in love before, but not like this. Even people looking for a soulmate, or praying they arrive, aren’t truly ready for the emotions that come with it.
Many people find it hard to talk to someone about their soulmate, because they know it is hard to find someone who can really understand. If you have not been there, you don’t really know what it’s like. Many soulmates have a difficult time adjusting to and accepting a soul connection. This is one reason why many soulmates become runners.
IT’S NOT ALWAYS SOULMATE LOVE
So it’s safe to say your soulmate is the love of your life. But what happens if your soulmate doesn’t get their act together, or passes on? Some people are lucky enough to get another soulmate. Especially if the relationship didn’t move forward like it should because your soulmate rejected the connection.
Not every person who experiences the love of their life though, has actually found their soulmate. That’s not to say the love of their life wasn’t special. Or the feelings towards this person were not special. Love is an amazing thing, and intense, passionate and hard to forget. But not everyone we love is our soulmate.
Sometimes we can’t forget someone we know that was totally wrong for us. And we do the “what if’s” and wonder what could have been. It’s hard to look back on a relationship that didn’t work out, especially if we know that person was the love of our life. Sometimes people call their first love the love of their life. In part that may be due to everything being “first”. It’s a first kiss, first date and all those things are special and sentimental to many of us. Whether or not the love of your life was/is your soulmate doesn’t really matter. What matters is that you found each other.