Interference is soulmate relationships is very common. When a relationship is forged by destiny, many are shocked by the amount of interference they encounter. In many cases the interference is a lesson to be learned and dealt with.
HOW FAMILY INTERFERES
For instance, let’s say one soulmate had a family that was very dependent on them and left them little time and room for a real relationship. Upon meeting a soulmate, their family may try anything to break the couple and stop them from seeing each other. They won’t admit they are being selfish. Oh no! They will claim it’s because they love them. The universe brought these two together to allow them to break the stranglehold their family is holding over them. Unfortunately, this can often result in a power struggle between soulmates rather than dealing with the real issue.
Instead of doing what needs to be done, they expect their partner to accept the unhealthy situation being forced upon them. Of course their soulmate can clearly see the dysfunctional family dynamics. But the other refuses to acknowledge and deal with it. Instead they will make excuses for them or even side with them. Many soulmates break up because of family interference. They often reconcile. But the family hasn’t changed, and the interference starts all over again. This crazy cycle will continue until the lesson is learned and appropriately dealt with.
THE POWER OF THE EX
Interference can also come from a soulmate’s ex romantic partner. The ex can behave improperly and try to cause a break up in the soulmate relationship. Exes can also encourage their children to interfere and cause problems for the couple. A soulmate that wants to sabotage their relationship will go back to their ex every time they encounter troubles with their soulmate.
Exes can often create an on/off relationship for the couple. The soulmate is probably not in love with their ex. Nor having a problem choosing who they want. It stems from a larger issue and the ex is just a tool of sabotage. How a person deals with an ex when they’re single is one thing. But when you get into a new relationship, how you dealt with an ex has to change. In any relationship, you should never let a dysfunctional relationship from your past interfere with your current one. Many soulmate couples encounter this type of interference in their relationships.
One partner could have a job that causes a lot of interference. What job may have worked for a single person doesn’t always work for a couple. They can use every excuse in the book as to why they have to devote so much time to work. It is a fact that no normal relationship can survive when there is no quality time given to the relationship.
They may need the money to survive, but don’t they also need a relationship? Many soulmates believe they can survive work interference because of their strong connection. This is not true. A relationship needs both partners to be present, to create memories, and grow together. If they don’t have the time to do that, they grow apart.
There are many different types of interference soulmates can encounter, but if they stick together and don’t take it out on each other, they can weather the storm.