Dignity, and maintaining it, is a major soulmate lesson. Has your soulmate relationship cost you your dignity? Does your dignity take a back seat to pleasing your soulmate? Do you sacrifice your dignity to keep your relationship afloat? Is it really working? What else did it cost when you tossed your dignity aside?
LOW DIGNITY EQUALS LOW SELF-ESTEEM
It has most likely made you very unsure of your place in the soulmate relationship. When your dignity suffers, your self-esteem suffers. Insecurity can do a lot of damage to any relationship. It’s a downward spiral and the insecurity will just grow. And it’s hard to recover when your dignity falls all the way to the basement.
You may have thought you were doing what was best for your soulmate relationship. And to keep that relationship on a forward momentum. But all you did was avoid important issues and lessons that needed to be addressed. When you sweep things under the rug, and don’t take care of the problems as they occur, they only get worse. Their influence begins to permeate every area of your relationship.
IF IT INSULTS YOUR SOUL, DON’T DO IT
You know in your gut when you’re going against your soul. When something feels wrong, don’t do it. Let your intuition guide you. Because it will never steer you wrong. And don’t confuse fear with intuition. It may seem, at the time, the easiest way to handle things. Why make a big deal about it if you don’t have to? Why not be the bigger person? Or why risk making it a bigger thing?
The answer to those questions lies in the fact that your soulmate relationship is breaking, or already broken. If you just ignore it the relationship falls apart. Your dignity needs to follow you throughout your relationship. And you can’t leave it behind. If your spiritual partner’s words and/or behavior triggers you to do something beneath your dignity, it’s up to you to address it. You need to change your response and behaviors in an effort to bring about change in your soulmate as well.
RECLAIM YOUR DIGNITY
Your dignity isn’t gone for good. You can always get it back. But in order to retrieve it, you’re going to have to make some serious changes. First, get back on your spiritual path. The universe created this soul connection to further your spiritual journey. And not to go backwards!
You also have to be realistic going forward. Your spiritual partner may not like the fact that you’re taking your power back. They may try and do everything in their power to prevent that from happening. Don’t let them prey on your weakness. Stand firm and do what you know is right. Stand up to them and stand up for yourself when you feel it’s necessary and proper.
Show them this change in you is a permanent one. It will help them accept your changes and will force them to realize they have to make some changes of their own. This is what soulmates are supposed to create, change for the better, not the worse. If things have gotten way out of hand, you may need some time apart to give yourself time to heal and rebuild.
Take the time to find yourself and center yourself. When you do, you will be ready to enter another relationship armed with confidence, dignity, and self-esteem. Rid yourself of unhealthy behaviors and habits. Learn to create and enforce boundaries. Healthy people have healthy soulmate relationships.
Have you lost your dignity in your soulmate relationship? Have you been able to get it back? What steps did you take? We would love hearing your experiences and so would our readers.