Is your soulmate out of control? Has your relationship gotten completely out of control because of their actions? It would be great if soulmates have smooth transitions from one relationship status to the next. But that’s not likely to happen. When soulmates meet, the connection takes over, leaving us feeling out of control. When trying to regain that control, things often spiral out of control.
SOULMATES HANDLE THE CONNECTION DIFFERENTLY
Many soulmates are happy to experience the over the top emotions and depth of their connection. Others freak out because it scares them. Most have never felt like this before. This can lead to denial, running away, and/or acting out. It’s these behaviors that cause a soulmate to behave and lose control.
When a soulmate tries to deny the connection, they do anything and everything to try to prove it. Many will cut off their soulmate from any communication and social media. They will try to remove them from their life entirely. And they may say hurtful things, negate any feelings for their soulmate, or say that it’s not requited. And they run.
IMPACT TO THE RECEIVING SOULMATE
An out of control soulmate may end the relationship abruptly and go back to an ex. Or they may start a new rebound relationship. This is extremely hurtful to the receiving soulmate, who in turn, may easily go out of control themselves. The receiving soulmate may not be able to stop thinking about the one who ran. And since these thoughts make them miserable, they’re unable to function. This results in losing sleep, not being able to focus on work and eating or drinking the wrong things.
They may also resort to out of control behavior themselves. They may stalk their soulmate endlessly on social media, leave nasty messages or texts or show up unannounced. Some may even cause a scene in public. Soulmates have often remarked that at times their own behavior towards, or as a reaction to something, their soulmate did or said was a source of great embarrassment.
It only makes this worse when both soulmates are out of control. Although it is very difficult since soulmates have a connection and mirror each other, you have to keep control of your own emotions and behaviors. Being irrational and coming from a place of anger, hurt, or fear is not going to get you anywhere.
When a soulmate is out of control, distance really is the best thing. Until they get control of themselves and are in control of their feelings, thoughts, and lives, just leave them be. It may sound like a hard thing to do, but there will be less damage done if you don’t join them.