Interference is soulmate relationships is very common. When a relationship comes with soulmate destiny, many are shocked by the amount of interference they encounter. In many cases the interference may actually be a lesson to be learned and dealt with.
For instance, let’s say one soulmate had a family that was very dependent on them and left them little time and room for a real relationship. Upon meeting their soulmate, their family may try anything to break the couple and stop them from seeing each other. They won’t admit they are being selfish, they will claim it is because they love them. The universe brought these two together to allow them to break the stranglehold their family is holding over them. Unfortunately, this can often result in a power struggle between soulmates rather than dealing with the real issue.
Instead of doing what needs to be done, they expect their soulmate to accept the unhealthy situation being forced upon them. Of course their soulmate can clearly see the dysfunctional family dynamics, but the other refuses to acknowledge and deal with it. Instead they will make excuses for them or even side with them. Many soulmates break up because of family interference. They often reconcile, but the family hasn’t changed, and the interference starts all over again. This crazy cycle will continue until the lesson is learned and appropriately dealt with.
Interference can also come from a soulmate’s ex romantic partner. The ex can behave improperly and try to cause a break up in the soulmate relationship. Exes can also encourage their children to interfere and cause problems for the couple. A soulmate that wants to sabotage their relationship will go back to their ex every time they encounter troubles with their soulmate.
Exes can often create an on/off relationship for a soulmate couple. The soulmate is probably not in love with their ex, nor having a problem choosing who they want. It stems from a larger issue and the ex is just a tool of sabotage. How a person deals with an ex when they are single is one thing, but when you get into a new relationship, how you dealt with an ex has to change. In any relationship, you should never let a dysfunctional relationship from your past interfere with your current one. Many soulmate couples encounter this type of interference in their relationships.
One partner could have a job that causes a lot of interference. What job may have worked for a single person doesn’t always work for a couple. They can use every excuse in the book as to why they have to devote so much time to work. It is a fact that no normal relationship can survive when there is no quality time given to the relationship. They may need the money to survive, but don’t they also need a relationship? Many soulmates believe they can survive work interference because of their strong connection. This is not true. A relationship needs both partners to be present, to create memories, and grow together. If they don’t have the time to do that, they grow apart.
There are many different types of interference soulmates can encounter, but if they stick together and don’t take it out on each other, they can weather the storm.
Losing your mind in a soulmate relationship can be an all too common occurrence. When these intense connections present themselves, many times one, if not both of you, can lose touch with your sanity and find yourselves losing your mind. Were you both completely sane when you first met but now things either of you do and say make you look insane? So how exactly do you begin losing your mind once you meet a soulmate?
Meeting a soulmate is often a mind-blowing experience. It can really shake you up and make them feel completely powerless and out of control. When soulmates feel they are losing control of their emotions, they feel they are losing control of their lives. This causes them to feel they are losing their mind, the degree of which will vary for each person.
Some soulmates will feel exhilarated, and in awe, at the depth of the love they feel towards someone. Others will freak out completely by the depth of love they feel toward someone. These folks are the ones we often see losing it in a soulmate relationship. When their emotions go haywire, the brain goes along for the ride.
When a soulmate loses their mind, they can really screw up the soulmate relationship. Some run for the hills. They block all contact and refuse to speak to their soulmate, usually giving them bogus excuse for bailing. Others will just simply disappear, often permanently, ghosting their soulmate instead of ending the relationship.
Other soulmates can turn to another romantic partner they don’t feel as strongly for. They find that person safer and easier to mange because they can control their emotions within the confines of a mundane relationship.
Soulmates can also create many problems, and tons of drama, because they are waiting for the shoe to drop. They figure this is too good to be true, so why not speed up the ending by sabotaging the relationship. There are also cases where some soulmates marry someone else!
The list of destructive things some soulmates can and will do if fall into this trap is endless. The other soulmate is put through hell, thanks to the insanity of their partner. It can literally drive them crazy too.
So what do you do when you, or your soulmate, begin to feel like you are losing your mind?
First of all, you must get a grip on your own mind. Don’t try to make sense of their craziness. That would be crazy on your part and also an epic waste of time. You cannot rationalize irrational behavior, so don’t bother wasting your time. Stop trying to understand the real reason they are doing this or that or why they said this or that. More than likely you can put it under the blanket of a soulmate freak out. That is the main issue, the day-to-day minor issues don’t matter, because they are all stemming from the same reason.
You handle it by trying to stay as sane as you can. If you let it drive you to a point where you are losing your mind too, you have lost the battle. Two people who have gone loony tunes are in no position to get a healthy, sane relationship going. All you will get it chaos and toxicity. So try to ground yourself and if your soulmate spins out of control, don’t try to control it or stop it. This is their battle to fight, not yours. It is time to sit on the sidelines, even though that is hard to do. You need to wait for the dust to settle. Once they have come to their senses, then you can both move forward together towards a happy relationship.
Many times we see self-entitlement in soulmate relationships. Because of the connection between soulmates, quite often one, or both ,may have a sense of entitlement. When it comes to soulmate relationships, this often translates to one of the soulmates “getting away with murder”. Some soulmates think that no matter what they do or say, the connection will keep the relationship together. They rely on the connection between the two soulmates as a “get out of jail free card” and use it quite often. This is simply not true, and has cost more than one soulmate couple their relationship.
A connection does exist between soulmates, but at a certain point self-entitlement can create dysfunction and chaos. When the connection is used against one partner, the relationship becomes very one-sided. But what exactly is soulmate self-entitlement? It is the same thing as self-entitlement, but to a much larger degree, which of course, makes it harder to deal with.
When you have a soulmate it is very easy to feel as though your whole world revolves around them. This is actually quite normal. The problem is, when it revolves around only one of them, the other feels very left out. There has to be a balance in all relationships, including soulmate relationships, if they are going to work out in the long run. So be careful to make sure when you meet your soulmate that you do not go too far overboard and leave yourself behind. Allow your soulmate to do as much for you as you do for them. If they aren’t, you need to pull back on your efforts.
Self-entitlement between soulmates also occurs due to the extreme emotions involved in a soulmate connection. Anyone in a soulmate relationship experiences emotional highs and lows. So when soulmates have arguments, a soulmate with a sense of sense entitlement can hit below the belt. Way, way, WAY below the belt.
The things soulmates can do to one another, especially in the beginning of the relationship, are shocking. Not all couples go through this, but most soulmate couples do. Often one soulmate recognizes the connection right away and is more comfortable with it than the other. The other partner will act out, flip-flop, or even run. The soulmate who recognizes the connection often chases after them, and wants to talk to them about the connection to ease their mind. This rarely, if ever creates a harmonious relationship. What it actually creates is soulmate self-entitlement.
The one causing pain to other sees how much the other is putting up with and that they are always forgiven pretty easily. They then feel entitled to push the boundaries and repeat bad behavior. They begin to feel a sense of self-entitlement that no matter what they do to their soulmate, they will always be there for them. Bad idea. Real bad idea. This is NOT what you want your soulmate to learn. Why? Because any relationship without boundaries has no choice but to become dysfunctional down the road.
Nothing is more miserable than a dysfunctional soulmate relationship, so be careful. If you see that your soulmate relationship has self-entitlement issues, it is time to address them. Not by talking, but by putting your foot down and keeping it down. Action, not words, are the remedy for soulmate self-entitlement issues, so don’t bother having long discussions about it. Your words didn’t give them a feeling of self-entitlement, your actions did. So obviously that is what you have to change.