Soulmate Crisis Point
When your soulmate is at a stalemate, you can feel pretty miserable. If you have been reading our blog for a while you will totally understand what we mean when we say soulmate relationships are often challenging ones. We say this all the time, over and over again, to be honest… but so many folks still operate under the misconception that just because some one is their soulmate, that all will work out with divine intervention. This is simply not always the case.
Many people think soulmate relationships, because of the deep connection, naturally evolve and become long term relationships usually involving marriage. Just because someone may be one of your romantic soulmates, does not mean that it will easily take this journey. Actually, this is a huge error in thinking. Soulmate relationships usually require a lot of work to move them up the relationship ladder. And many times you will find that the relationship just hits the wall and realize your soulmate is at a stalemate.
SO what are some examples of when a soulmate is at a stalemate?
- Your romantic partner may not be ready to have a deeply connected committed relationship.
- Your soulmate may have disappeared, without word or warning, just poof, perhaps never to be heard from again.
- There is no growth in your relationship – no movement toward commitment or engagement… staying in the same place for a long time, perhaps even years.
- You believe you have met your soulmate, but unfortunately one or both of you are involved in other relationships.
- You have met someone you feel a deep connection to but they are not interested in having the same relationship that you do.
- You may be involved with someone who is your soulmate but there is problem after problem, and even breakup after breakup and it could even be an on-again off-again relationship.
So what do you when your soulmate is at a stalemate? You have to take action. The universe may create soulmate connections, but what we do with them is of our own free will. The soulmate fairy is not going to come down and waver her magic wand to fix your relationship. YOU will have to fix it, or make the difficult decision to end it. It is time to stop waiting for divine intervention, and be take action. Essentially people have to be forced to change, and until you create the change, you can pretty much bet that your soulmate won’t change either. But when you change, in the way you act, react and even speak to your soulmate, they will have to naturally change to reflect the changes in you.
Not only do you have to look at what is causing the stalemate in your relationship, but how you both contributed to this status. You may think it all rests with the other person, but it may actually start with you. Just because someone is your soulmate does not mean you have to lower your standards, deny yourself self-respect, and allow someone to treat you like dirt and take advantage of you. This is not what it is about because this is what the Universe wants for you.
If you find yourself in this situation, where your soulmate is at a stalemate, it is time to take action. Sarah and Sophia are experts at seeing deep into your soulmate relationship to find exactly where the stalemate and stagnation is coming from and give you an action plan to guide you to bringing it back into balance. They will also be able to see if it is time to let any hope of the relationship go and give you steps to take for moving on with your life.
People who believe in the concept of soulmates also believe soulmates are made for each other. Just the other day I was thinking about two little idioms; “They are made for each other” and “Marriages are Made in Heaven”. But are they really? Are marriages made in heaven? Or are they something we arrange here on earth when we think we have found our significant other. Are people made for each other, or do we just sort of mold ourselves to the ones with whom we are in relationship.
If you believe in soulmates and soulmate relationships, rest assured, you are made for each other… in heaven! Soulmates meet on the ‘other side’, in heaven, prior to incarnating, or being born. Before we are born, our essence, or soul, has meetings with our guides and elders as well as members from our soul family to determine the life lessons we will learn during the upcoming incarnation. Our soul family are the souls who travel with us from lifetime to lifetime. We will have real earth-bound relationships with these souls over and over again as we all come down together to experience life, learn, and evolve before our final reunion on the other side.
We may incarnate at the same or different time periods, depending on the nature of the relationship. If it is to be a boyfriend / girlfriend or husband / wife relationship we will more than likely incarnate during the same generation. Since we travel with these souls through time when we physically meet there is a sense of familiarity or a feeling of already knowing that person. There is a subtle recognition when we encounter one of the souls we travel through lifetimes with. That recognition should also come with a flashing billboard announcing “Major Life Lesson Incoming” because you know when you meet one of them, the will more than likely be a spiritual life lesson attached to that relationship that will cause you to grow and evolve.
Let’s say, for example, you need a life lesson in patience, which is one of the most difficult life lessons by the way. But don’t lose heart, when you are experiencing life lessons in patience it means you are almost at the end of your incarnation cycles and you will be literally home free! On the other hand, your soulmate needs a lesson in learning how to receive unconditional love. Both of you agree to provide this lesson to each other, in one way or another, when you develop your life’s blueprint. You create soulmate contracts or agreements with each other to provide these opportunities for spiritual growth. Your souls need these life lessons in order to evolve to the next level, whatever that level may be. After many years on Earth, you find each other, have a great connection and develop a relationship. Because you agreed to have the life lessons with that soul, or souls, you are already with each other before coming down to planet Earth. So you are made for each other because you agreed to be in each others lives for a reason to fulfill and complete your soulmate contracts and agreements to provide the lessons you each need in your individual soul evolution.
While you may be made for each other due to the soulmate agreement or soulmate contract you made with each other, it is not a guarantee that you will be together for the long haul. A soulmate can come into your life to create a relationship for a season, a reason or in some cases a lifetime. The number of instances of soulmates uniting for a lifetime however are few and far between although it can and will happen to some soulmates.
If you break up with your soulmate it creates the emotional soulmate crisis point we call soulmate separation anxiety. It is during that period of separation, and the resulting anxiety (sadness, depression, obsession) that goes with it, that you will learn the life lessons because you will have to cope and deal with the situation. Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are both well versed in soulmates, twin flames, soulmate relationships and twin flame relationships and all the challenges and frustrations that can accompany them. They will be able to see if you soulmate relationship is for a season, a reason or a lifetime and give you the advice and guidance you need to move through the soulmate separation so you can learn your lessons easily and quickly.