Many times we are asked “How can I meet my soulmate?” If we believe in a truly limitless Universe, we must consider that the way our soulmate can enter our lives is limitless. Soulmate relationships are not something we create or find. Soulmate relationships are somewhat predestined or preordained, as a result of the karmic experiences we agree upon before being born. Soulmate relationships are not something we can seek while here on this earthly plane, but rather people who find each other when the time is right, as written in your soulmate contract. So it’s not so much a question of “How can I meet my soulmate?” but what is the Universe doing to bring them into your life.
When deep down in the core of your being you believe that your soulmate exists, there is no limit to the ways he or she can enter your life. ~~Arielle Ford
There is no How Can I Meet My Soulmate club or website. In reality there are not any meditations, visualizations or other metaphysical gimmicks you can do to draw your soulmate to you. You will either meet them in this lifetime… or you won’t. Remember this is something you agreed to experiencing before you were born so a soulmate relationship may not necessarily be part of you soul blue print for this lifetime. Please remember though that DOES NOT mean you will not have a fulfilling, connected, romantically intimate relationship for this lifetime. Actually, you may be better of in a romantic relationship that is not a soulmate relationship as it will not come with the challenges and difficulties associated with a soulmate partnership.
Now all this is well enough said but is there anything at all you can do to meet your soulmate? There are a few things that need to be in place for that soulmate connection to manifest in the earthly plane. First and foremost you need to be working on yourself. By this we mean not just floating through life and reacting to different things that happen to you. You must be focused on yourself. You must be growing, personally and spiritually and you must be taking a proactive approach to the evolution of your soul as you live on the planet.
Soulmates tend to find each other during their respective pursuits of their soul missions. ~ Linda Brady
Now we don’t mean that you need to involved with saving all sea lions or volunteering to feed the hungry children of Africa, although these are both worthwhile endeavors. We mean that you have to be focused on you and your soul’s growth. In other words, focus on why you are here on the planet, whatever that may be. For when you are doing this you are in perfect alignment with your soul blueprint and placing yourself in optimal positioning to meet your soulmate. Work on yourself. Work on your personal and spiritual development. This allows the Universe to see that you are working on your soul path and actually ready to have a soulmate encounter and experience.
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People who believe in the concept of soulmates also believe soulmates are made for each other. Just the other day I was thinking about two little idioms; “They are made for each other” and “Marriages are Made in Heaven”. But are they really? Are marriages made in heaven? Or are they something we arrange here on earth when we think we have found our significant other. Are people made for each other, or do we just sort of mold ourselves to the ones with whom we are in relationship.
If you believe in soulmates and soulmate relationships, rest assured, you are made for each other… in heaven! Soulmates meet on the ‘other side’, in heaven, prior to incarnating, or being born. Before we are born, our essence, or soul, has meetings with our guides and elders as well as members from our soul family to determine the life lessons we will learn during the upcoming incarnation. Our soul family are the souls who travel with us from lifetime to lifetime. We will have real earth-bound relationships with these souls over and over again as we all come down together to experience life, learn, and evolve before our final reunion on the other side.
We may incarnate at the same or different time periods, depending on the nature of the relationship. If it is to be a boyfriend / girlfriend or husband / wife relationship we will more than likely incarnate during the same generation. Since we travel with these souls through time when we physically meet there is a sense of familiarity or a feeling of already knowing that person. There is a subtle recognition when we encounter one of the souls we travel through lifetimes with. That recognition should also come with a flashing billboard announcing “Major Life Lesson Incoming” because you know when you meet one of them, the will more than likely be a spiritual life lesson attached to that relationship that will cause you to grow and evolve.
Let’s say, for example, you need a life lesson in patience, which is one of the most difficult life lessons by the way. But don’t lose heart, when you are experiencing life lessons in patience it means you are almost at the end of your incarnation cycles and you will be literally home free! On the other hand, your soulmate needs a lesson in learning how to receive unconditional love. Both of you agree to provide this lesson to each other, in one way or another, when you develop your life’s blueprint. You create soulmate contracts or agreements with each other to provide these opportunities for spiritual growth. Your souls need these life lessons in order to evolve to the next level, whatever that level may be. After many years on Earth, you find each other, have a great connection and develop a relationship. Because you agreed to have the life lessons with that soul, or souls, you are already with each other before coming down to planet Earth. So you are made for each other because you agreed to be in each others lives for a reason to fulfill and complete your soulmate contracts and agreements to provide the lessons you each need in your individual soul evolution.
While you may be made for each other due to the soulmate agreement or soulmate contract you made with each other, it is not a guarantee that you will be together for the long haul. A soulmate can come into your life to create a relationship for a season, a reason or in some cases a lifetime. The number of instances of soulmates uniting for a lifetime however are few and far between although it can and will happen to some soulmates.
If you break up with your soulmate it creates the emotional soulmate crisis point we call soulmate separation anxiety. It is during that period of separation, and the resulting anxiety (sadness, depression, obsession) that goes with it, that you will learn the life lessons because you will have to cope and deal with the situation. Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are both well versed in soulmates, twin flames, soulmate relationships and twin flame relationships and all the challenges and frustrations that can accompany them. They will be able to see if you soulmate relationship is for a season, a reason or a lifetime and give you the advice and guidance you need to move through the soulmate separation so you can learn your lessons easily and quickly.