There are many soulmate relationships that will end up in the friend zone. It may be very frustrating for you that he only sees you as a friend because he can’t see how perfect you are together. You cannot believe he only wants to be friends or only sees you as a friend. He knows how well you get along, and how you can talk about anything. He has told you he feels closer to you than anyone else on earth. So then why won’t he pluck you out of the friend zone and make you his romantic partner?
You begin to wonder what else he needs to see or what else you can do to finally get out of the friend zone. You should be having a wonderful romance, yet you are stuck in his friend zone while he dates other women who are the complete opposite of you. He complains to you about his relationship disasters and dramas and you wonder if he is either blind or stupid. How can he not see what is right in front of him? How can he not know how perfect you both are for each other? Why didn’t he put the bimbos he has been dating in the friend zone instead of you? What is wrong with him?
There may not be anything wrong with her per say. He may just think that the reason you two get along so great is because you are only friends. He may think that if you got out of the friend zone and began dating, it would be an epic fail. You have become so important to him that he couldn’t bear to lose the friendship you have. But remember, he may not always feel the same. He may get tired of seeking out (and finding) all the wrong girls for him and take a chance on you. There may be some growing up he needs to do or some lessons he needs to learn first. It is so hard to see your soulmate make one relationship mistake after the other and wait patiently for him in the friend zone. So how do you knock some sense into him? Is there a way to get him to see you and your relationship the way he should?
You have already won him over as a friend and there may be nothing you can do to show him he needs to switch your zone. Pouring out your heart and soul can actually push him further away. Sure, it can get you out of the friend zone, but you could wind up in the “dead zone” because now he is so uncomfortable he can’t deal with you even as a friend. You don’t want to push your luck and push him away. It might be best to find other ways to get his attention rather than with a sudden outburst of emotion. Do you hug each other? Try to do that a little more often. Physical contact may bring about a physical response will may then trigger thoughts and emotions. Touch him in ways that appear friendly, and allow for friendly ways of showing affection without going overboard. Let him see you being affectionate with someone else. Jealousy is another way to get someone to realize their true feelings. Just don’t go overboard because that too can backfire
There are too many people who couldn’t hold it in any longer and just unload all their feelings on their friend all at once. They were not prepared for the consequences and hurt feelings. They not only got to hear that their feelings are not reciprocated, but now the friendship has changed or is non-existent. So do you and the one you think is your soul mate have a chance of making this work on another level? Can you leap out of this friend zone and into the soulmate zone anytime soon?
Your patience has probably worn very thin at this point. You may have spent a lot of time searching for clues and for his innermost feelings but come up empty or more confused that ever. A soulmate psychic reading can inform you if you really are romantic soul mates. There are friend soul mates too, and YOU may be seeing this connection between you the wrong way. A soulmate psychic reading may show you that the friend zone is exactly where you should both be permanently. Soulmates teach us lessons, and yours could simply be to learn patience while he learns his lesson, because then you will be rewarded with being out of the friend zone for good.
Have you ever wondered what the difference is between kindred spirits, soulmates and karmic relationships? You probably have some relationships or friendships, male and female alike, where you feel a certain close bond with someone. You share many of the same interests, styles, colors, favorites movies and hobbies. You have many of the same attitudes and opinions about things. You laugh together, smile together and probably even cry together. You connect on many topics of conversation. You have a bond and feel very comfortable and at ease being around them. More than likely you are close friends, even best friends and you have a lot to share with each other. You feel a close bond with them because you are kindred spirits.
Kindred Spirits are earthly defined relationships although there could definitely be a spiritual component to your relationship. Additionally there could be some karma to work out with a kindred spirit but these relationships are not as karmically heavy as soulmate or twinflame relationships. The connection with kindred spirits can certainly be deep, especially if you have a very close friendship with someone. But for the most part, kindred spirits are relationships we formed after birth, during our adolescence and adulthood as we navigated around the earthly plane meeting people with whom we click.
Are you in a relationship and confused about whether or not it is a true soulmate relationship, karmic relationship or kindred spirits? Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are expert Soulmate, Twinflame and Karmic Relationships specialist who specialize in love and relationship issues. When you are in a soulmate relationship you have invested a lot of time, energy and emotion into that relationship. Sarah and Sophia Elise are here to help you work through your soulmate relationship crises so you can get back on the path to happiness and fulfillment.