Free will still comes into play in soulmate relationships. We all have free will. God gave it to us so that we can make the choices we want to make for our lives. So, that being said, if God gave us all free will, even soulmates have the right to exercise their own free will to decide whether or not they choose to remain in the relationship. There have been many times when clients have asked how soulmate relationships play out when there is Free Will involved. This is a catch-22, considering ti within the framework of the soulmate contracts we make with each other. Since it is a Soulmate relationship, there is a certain predestined or predetermined agreement that the two of you will meet during this life time. You decided this prior to coming onto the planet, with your guides and other “Universe administration”, when you completed your life contract or blue print, for this life. You and your soulmates agreed that you would meet during this lifetime to provide lessons, personal growth and soul advancement to each other during your journey on Earth.
From this perspective, we are not honoring Free Will because these soulmate meetings are predetermined. Either of you can, however, delay your meeting through your courses of action as well as other life decisions you make. This is where the exercise of Free Will is realized. It could be delayed, the meeting could take place at a different location or under a different set of circumstances, but the two soulmates would still meet. When there is a soulmate contract between two souls, the two souls are bound (as implied to a binding of their souls). For example, if Suzy and Bill are contracted to meet on May 1, 2012 to create a romantic relationship by crossing paths at McDonald’s at the airport in Austin, Texas but Bill decides, on a whim through exercising his Free Will, to extend his Belize vacation a few days because he was having a great time scuba diving. Does this mean they missed their opportunity to meet? Nope! I just means that their meeting will take place at a later time.
Because Bill and Suzy are soulmates and contracted to each other to meet and begin a romantic relationship, it will happen. In a way it is part of their destiny that is etched in stone. While everyone does have Free Will to decide the course of action they will take in their daily lives, a soul contract or soulmate relationship is one of those karmic associations and agreements that has a path of destiny attached to it. If you are contracted and destined to meet you will, you just may not know the when and how of it as each of you exercise your free will and choices along the path of your life. As many karmic situations in our lives, they can often occur with what I like to call the clock of God, the Universal clock, in other words divine timing. This essentially means probably no one, except maybe God/dess, will know exactly when the timing of the meeting of your soulmate relationship will be. It will happen according to God/dess plan and the plan that you wrote in your soulmate contract with your soulmate. In actuality you probably provided for several different options in terms of meeting each other, not forcing it to be fit into one time slot because to do so would have violated your free will. You will meet, relax and do something fun for awhile.
Do you want to know how free will could possibly affect your soulmate relationship? Do you need to know if your soulmate could exercise their free will and decide to permanently end your relationship or use their free will to come back to you? A psychic soulmate reading with soulmate psychics Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise can reveal any free will decisions your soulmate could made concerning your relationship. But dont’ worry, it will also reveal any free will decisions of your own that you could be making that you may not yet know about. Knowing what to expect in your soulmate relationship keeps you prepared for what is coming and keeps you on track as your soulmate works through their own issues.
A synchronicity occurs when one of life’s little meaningful coincidences that are placed in your path. I remember once I needed to find someone to come and repair a few shingles on my roof. I had no idea who to call. While driving I had to stop at an intersection and stopped just to my right was a truck with an advertising magnet on the side with the name and phone number of an independent contractor who did roof repair. I just smiled, grabbed my phone and stored the number, grateful that what I needed was placed in my path. When we are aware enough to see them, we see our lives are filled with meaningful coincidences, synchronicity, we have created in the spiritual to manifest in the physical.
A synchronicity is created when people, places or events are brought into our lives to help us evolve. A synchronicity can highlight something going on in your life where you may need assistance. And I needed help with my roof and I trusted that they Universe people put the right person in my path at the right time. He fixed the roof for a reasonable rate and I have never had a problem with it. Was he a soulmate? No. He was just placed in my path at the right time to take care of a need I had expressed to the Universe and the delivered.
There are times though when someone could confuse a synchronicity or as a soulmate relationship. For example, lets say you meet someone who really touches your soul. You have a lot in common, like the same music and have some other things unique to your relationship. This person is in and out of your life like one giant boomerang. There is no contact for a year or so, then BAM! you cross paths again at Starbucks, the grocery store, the local flea market, or wherever.
This person seems to keep coming back into your life over and over again. You being to feel a destiny with them, of course you would, because they keep coming back like a bad weed in the garden. But is this a soulmate relationship? Or just one synchronicity after another to keep you stuck on the karma wheel? More than likely it is just a string of meetings brought together by synchronicity. Your paths keep crossing because you do have something to resolve with this person who keeps disappearing from your life. Do you let them cross your boundaries when they reappear in your life? Are you so happy to see them you ignore the fact they disappeared numerous times without reason, explanation or closure? If so, perhaps it is time to shut the roller coaster down. Perhaps the reason they keep reappearing is because you have allowed them but the lesson is to shut the door once and for all so you can grow and evolve in a new direction and make yourself truly available for a soulmate relationship to enter your life.
For example – you meet someone who interests you and touches your soul. Through synchronicity – that person seems to come into your life over and over again. You begin to feel a destiny with that person. You begin to think with your heart instead of your head as you imagine a connection to them because you keep crossing paths. You connect with that person on some level, certainly, but not at the soulmate level, even though there is karma there. There is a karmic lesson to be realized certainly but not one that will involve your heart, mind and soul to the depth a soulmate life lesson will.
In some cases the karma between the two people is positive – but in many cases you have attracted that person into your life for a learning lesson whether you are aware of it or not. You may not have a soulmate contract or soulmate agreement with that person, and therefore not officially soulmates, but you have them in your life for a reason.
Sometimes we can be confused as to whether a strong connection we feel to someone is a karmic relationship, soulmate relationship or just synchronicity. Do you wonder if a current relationship in your life is a synchronicity or a true soulmate relationship? Perhaps it is a karmic relationship you have with someone but unsure of the nature of the karma that exists between the two of you. Stop the confusion now with a call to either Lady Sarah or Sophia Elise who are both soulmate, twin flame, karmic relationship specialists. They will help you see past the confusion, find the lesson in all of this, and empower and encourage you to take the right course of action for the ultimate evolution of your soul.
When will I meet my soulmate? We hear that question so often. So many people want to know how they can find their soulmate, when they will find their soulmate and where they will find their soulmate. The best answer we can give to the “When will I meet my Soulmate?” question is…stop searching, stop looking and stop seeking. Do you remember the Buddhist proverbial quote, “When the Student is ready the Master will appear”? It is very similar with soulmates and soulmate relationships. When your soul is ready to meet, have a relationship and the lessons for personal growth and expansion that go with a soulmate relationship, the soulmate will come into your life. So basically when the soul is ready, your soulmate will come into your life.
So what exactly can you do to be ready to meet your soulmate? As previously mentioned in other posts, Is Life Incomplete Without Your Soulmate, the best way to meet your soulmate is to work on yourself. In working on yourself, either through meditation, personal therapy counseling, self-help books, personal growth seminars or studies, lectures, going to school or anything that causes the soul to expand and grow, you show the Universe (God, the angels, the archetypes, the Divine Source, Spirit) that you are ready to grow and evolve. When they see this, the likelihood of your soulmate entering your life increases exponentially.
When you are doing your own personal work, growing and evolving spiritually, as well as maybe intellectually and emotionally, you are creating the space for your soulmate to enter. If you life is cluttered with a too busy schedule, too many social obligations, too much work, gym time or volunteer work, you are sending the message out to the heavens that you are just too busy to work on yourself. Your life is too hectic for spiritual growth and you just don’t have the time to meet someone new, much less a soulmate to begin a soulmate relationship. De-clutter, de-stress, and focus on yourself and what you want in your life. If it is a relationship, great then put that out there to the universe. If it is a new car, then put that out there too. Heck I am have seen some guys get so overwhelmed with their new cars, you would think they were the soulmate relationship of their dreams.. but I digress.
Regardless of what a lot of people think, soulmate relationships are here to teach us about life and about love. More than likely unconditional love is the greatest life lesson soulmate relationships can bring to us. We must consider the ascended masters ( Jesus, Buddha, etc.) came to bring and teach unconditional love to the world and they had some major hardships to endure also. Likewise with your soulmate relationship. Now I am not indicating you will be tortured and killed, and certainly not equating your trials and tribulations to those of Jesus, but you will have to endure some difficulties in that soulmate relationship to assist you in becoming a better person. And some of those trials and tribulations will be difficult. If a soulmate relationship is to teach you about unconditional love, they have to be. And by the end of it, you might feel like you are dying. But remember it is about change, transformation and becoming a better person and greater soul.
Your soulmate is not someone you can seek. Your soulmate is not someone who will seek you. You probably will not find your soulmate if you are looking for him (or her). Soulmates come together by destiny or fate. Only by stopping the search, focusing on yourself and working on yourself will your soulmate materialize. That is the fastest, surest, easiest way for your soulmate to show up in your life. Focus on you. Take a class. Do a project. Learn to dance. Take Yoga. Meditate. Take several classes. But do something that will help with your own personal growth that will be beneficial for you even if it takes longer for your soulmate to appear. Do it for the right reasons. Do it for yourself. Go through the growth. Become the person you aspire to be and then the soulmate will appear during that journey of personal transformation. And with it, will come some lessons to help you grow and evolve more toward your perfection of understanding and experiencing the giving of unconditional love.
So many people have also asked us when they will met their soulmates. It is not really a question of linear time, however. You will meet your soulmate when your soul is ready to meet, really according to divine timing, so to speak. You are brought together by fate and destiny to fulfill an agreement the two of you made, or contracted with each other, before you were born. That soulmate contract stands and you will meet in this life time in order to meet and achieve some personal goals and agendas you setup for yourself, as well as the goals and agendas your soulmate defined for themselves. This is what it is all about. Can your meeting be delayed? Sure. One of you could exercise your free will and make a choice or life decision that could delay your meeting but there is a certain binding to a soulmate contract that indicates you will meet during this lifetime.
Are you looking for your soulmate ? Do you long to meet them or want to know if you will meet them during your lifetime? Are you asking yourself “When will I meet my soulmate?” A soulmate reading with Lady Sarah or Sophia Elise can answer all kinds of questions related to your soulmate or twin flame relationship. Do you want to know what you must achieve or overcome so your soulmate can come into your life? Do you want to know what part of your own personal growth you might be missing that could be potentially causing the delay of the soulmate entering your life? What life lessons must you learn or what thing must you overcome so you can meet your soulmate? Sarah and Sophia are both 5-star relationship soulmate experts who can answer any of your questions regarding love, romance, relationships and soulmates.
Some soulmate connections could be bad for you if you are unable to discern the ones you need to avoid. There is a common misconception that all soulmate connections are good and that you will live happily ever after. Of course it would be great if this were true, but unfortunately this is not the case. On the other hand, soulmate connections are to teach us things about ourselves and present opportunities for spiritual and personal growth. Here are some examples of soulmate connections that may not be for your highest good:
- If you find yourself in a relationship with someone who is overbearing, rude, abusive, disrespectful and unwilling to change, you could possibly be in a bad soulmate connection. But how can you know for sure? If things were great in the beginning (they always are by the way) but after the first two months his behavior changed for the worst, it might be time to assess this relationship. How does this relationship make you feel? Do you feel you have given away your power to this relationship but feel you need to hang in there because things were so great in the beginning? Is your soulmate willing to discuss this and make the changes needed to improve your relationship? If not, you could be experiencing a bad soulmate connections.
- You may feel you have a soulmate connection to someone but this does not always mean they feel the same. When you feel a soulmate connection to someone who does not reciprocate, you are trying to turn the relationship into something more than what it really is. You may both feel a very strong, intense connection to each other, especially sexually, but this does not always indicate it is a true soulmate relationship. If you are not both in agreement that this is a true soulmate connection, you might end up really hurt from having unrealistic expectations from this relationship. If he views your relationship as nothing more than a booty call, you could very well be stuck in a bad soulmate connection situation. You may feel the connection and have deep feelings for him, but in reality, your expectations for this person and this relationship could be very much off course.
- Another example of soulmate connections that could be bad for you is when your soulmate is married to someone else. Your married soulmate may tell you he will end his marriage when in reality he no intention of divorce. Even though the connection is so intense between the two of you (again, especially sexually) he may be too ingrained in his life with his wife. It is not that he does not love you nor see you as a soulmate partner, he could just not be willing to create upheaval in his life at the moment. Unless you are comfortable being someone’s mistress or willing to be considered second in their life, this particular soulmate connection could be bad for you.
- Soulmate connections that take over you entire life could potentially be bad for you. Whenever you meet a soulmate it is normal to want to spend as much time with them as you can. This is totally understandable. If you spend so much time with your soulmate, thinking about your soulmate, planning dates with your soulmate and fantasizing about your future with your soulmate, but allow everything else in your life to fall by the wayside, this is probably not good for you. Likewise, if your soulmate partner insists that you spend all your free time with him, his family and his friends and you have not seen your family and friends in months or years, this is another example of soulmate connections gone bad.
We are not saying that these soulmate connections could ruin your life but we would like you to consider how your soulmate relationship is affecting you and the rest of your life. If you are feeling harmonious in your day-to-day life, all is well, but if you are questioning or wondering if something is wrong, you may want to consider re-assessing your life and relationship.
It is also important to consider that perhaps bad soulmate connections are not soulmate relationships at all. They could be karmic relationships that you have allowed yourself to believe is a soulmate relationship. Karmic relationships, as well as soulmate relationships, are in your life to cause you to evaluate an aspect of your life or your relationship, that needs addressing and probably modifying. Karmic relationships have a tendency to highlight the areas of our lives that need work allowing us to have personal and often spiritual transformation. After all, that is why we are all here.
Why do you want to make him addicted to you you? Either he is or he isn’t. Can you really “make” someone want to be with you, care for you, love you? Furthermore, can you make someone you believe is your soulmate, addicted to you? If they really are your soulmate, by the romantic definition of the word, wouldn’t they already want to spend a lot of time with you by the nature of your soulmate connection?
There is a big problem with some of the sites out there selling love spells promising to bind a couple together forever, or spells to make him unattractive to anyone else, or even spells to stop divorce or break-ups. Again they flood you with the hope to make him addicted to you. If this is truly a soulmate relationship you are destined to be together anyway so doing all of the mumbo jumbo to make him addicted to you or love you more is an exercise in futility. And it could break your bank. Big time. If you are lucky enough to have money to burn, instead of wasting it on love spells, lotions and potions invest it in yourself. Brighten your look with a new wardrobe, change your hair, get a makeover, enroll in some courses or take a vacation!
Cosmopolitan and other women’s magazines are usually filled with 10 step programs to make you a better lover, give a better blow job, find better undies. Do you really believe all of that will make him addicted to you? Besides if that is all it takes, then they are obviously so shallow and it will not be a soulmate relationship anyway.
Soulmate relationships are not shallow which is what obviously makes them soulmate relationships. They are not built on hormones, looks, financial stability or how addicted someone is to you. As a matter of fact, relationships that are built on ‘addiction’ will fail within 3-5 months anyway because both parties will not be able to keep the amount of energy required to feed the addiction. Then reality will set it and BOOM – it will end because the addiction has faded away.
A soulmate relationship is not based on addiction. It is not based on the need to be with each other 24-7 in a frenzied desire to constantly be near each other. A soulmate relationship is not based on texting and sexting until wee hours of the morning night after night after night. We are not saying these components are not there in a soulmate relationship because there is plenty of intimacy, sex and sizzle. A soulmate relationship however, is not based on addiction, it is based much more so on the connection and the ability to keep that connection flowing even when you are not speaking, talking to and touching each other.
Furthermore, if a soulmate relationship is truly to be, there is not any amount of reading 10-step articles or energy manipulation you can do to make him addicted to you. He either is or he isn’t. Plain and simple. If your soulmate relationship is to be long lasting, it is because of the destiny that exists between the two of you, as well as the contents of your soulmate contact or soulmate agreement. Trying to make him addicted to you or paying hundreds or thousands of dollars to put spells on him so he is bound to you forever will only result in frustration and an empty wallet. Besides, if you decide to end the relationship do you really want someone to be obsessively addicted to you stalking you for the rest of your life? Probably not!
If you feel threatened because you feel your soulmate relationship may be ending or you are having a lot of problems within your soulmate relationship, getting a soulmate reading from psychics Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise will help you understand your current relationship dynamic and give you clarity into difficult soulmate relationship dynamics. Sarah and Sophia will give you guidance to help you decide if your soulmate relationship should end and give you the tools you need to improve your relationship so it can become the relationship you both desire and deserve. One call with them will help you decide if you should break the soulmate bond, or all the connection to continue. We can not promise to make him addicted to you, but we will provide accurate, honest psychic soulmate readings that will put you on the right track.