We have received many emails as of late inquiring about the different types of soulmates. Clients have asked us during psychic readings what type of soulmate relationship they have. We found this question confusing because as far as we are concerned, a soulmate is a soulmate and not necessarily defined by a different type of connection. You can have a soulmate relationship with a pet, family member or friend. Not all soulmates are romantic relationships. These people wanted to know is what type of romantic soulmate relationship they had. They thought there were different types of romantic soulmate relationships.
Although to a certain degree that is true, there really are not different types of soulmates when it comes to romantic relationship. The couple defines their soulmate relationship and it really becomes what they make of it. It is not predestined. It is not out of their hands. They are given the gift of the soulmate connection to do with it what they please. They can use that gift to better their lives, and make changes and learn lessons. Or, they can use that connection to create complete chaos and learn nothing and make no changes. It is not pre-destined. It is not out of the soulmates control. They must take responsibility themselves for what becomes of their soulmate relationship and how it grows or fails.
For instance, one of the soulmates in a soulmate relationship may run and hide from the connection. They do everything possible to avoid the connection and their soulmate. They may even deny the reality of the soulmate relationship altogether. Is this predestined? Did the universe purposely put you in this soulmate situation just for you to learn something with no chance of success? No. The universe did not cause the person to run away, deny their feelings, or act like an idiot. It was up to the individual and they are responsible for their behavior. There is a chance for all soulmate relationships to work out. The universe does not set soulmates up in advance to fail and make you miserable, so stop blaming God. Just like every opportunity the universe brings to people, it is what the individual does with that opportunity that determines the outcome.
You may have found yourself in a soulmate relationship where your soulmate is making mistake after mistake. You may feel you are doing all you can but your soulmate is hell-bent on destroying your soulmate bond. Remember, your soulmate has the free will to screw up the unique gift the universe has offered them. But also consider they have the free will to turn things around just as easily. It just takes a the execution of a free will choice on their part. You may have to walk away from your soulmate or put distance between you until that time.
Not all soulmate relationships work out. But all soulmate relationships have a chance to work out. All it takes is two willing participants to make it work. We felt it was very important to bring some clarity to the confusion of soulmate types. There are many types of behaviors, connections and emotions that are similar to a lot of soulmate couples. Each soulmate couple is unique, but similarities between all soulmate couples do exist. We just wanted to explain that there is no type of soulmate that is destined to fail or succeed. The purpose of soulmates is to create change, and with that comes challenges and often drama. It is up to each individual if they create change, if they accept the challenges, and to keep the drama to a minimum.
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Free will still comes into play in soulmate relationships. We all have free will. God gave it to us so that we can make the choices we want to make for our lives. So, that being said, if God gave us all free will, even soulmates have the right to exercise their own free will to decide whether or not they choose to remain in the relationship. There have been many times when clients have asked how soulmate relationships play out when there is Free Will involved. This is a catch-22, considering ti within the framework of the soulmate contracts we make with each other. Since it is a Soulmate relationship, there is a certain predestined or predetermined agreement that the two of you will meet during this life time. You decided this prior to coming onto the planet, with your guides and other “Universe administration”, when you completed your life contract or blue print, for this life. You and your soulmates agreed that you would meet during this lifetime to provide lessons, personal growth and soul advancement to each other during your journey on Earth.
From this perspective, we are not honoring Free Will because these soulmate meetings are predetermined. Either of you can, however, delay your meeting through your courses of action as well as other life decisions you make. This is where the exercise of Free Will is realized. It could be delayed, the meeting could take place at a different location or under a different set of circumstances, but the two soulmates would still meet. When there is a soulmate contract between two souls, the two souls are bound (as implied to a binding of their souls). For example, if Suzy and Bill are contracted to meet on May 1, 2012 to create a romantic relationship by crossing paths at McDonald’s at the airport in Austin, Texas but Bill decides, on a whim through exercising his Free Will, to extend his Belize vacation a few days because he was having a great time scuba diving. Does this mean they missed their opportunity to meet? Nope! I just means that their meeting will take place at a later time.
Because Bill and Suzy are soulmates and contracted to each other to meet and begin a romantic relationship, it will happen. In a way it is part of their destiny that is etched in stone. While everyone does have Free Will to decide the course of action they will take in their daily lives, a soul contract or soulmate relationship is one of those karmic associations and agreements that has a path of destiny attached to it. If you are contracted and destined to meet you will, you just may not know the when and how of it as each of you exercise your free will and choices along the path of your life. As many karmic situations in our lives, they can often occur with what I like to call the clock of God, the Universal clock, in other words divine timing. This essentially means probably no one, except maybe God/dess, will know exactly when the timing of the meeting of your soulmate relationship will be. It will happen according to God/dess plan and the plan that you wrote in your soulmate contract with your soulmate. In actuality you probably provided for several different options in terms of meeting each other, not forcing it to be fit into one time slot because to do so would have violated your free will. You will meet, relax and do something fun for awhile.
Do you want to know how free will could possibly affect your soulmate relationship? Do you need to know if your soulmate could exercise their free will and decide to permanently end your relationship or use their free will to come back to you? A psychic soulmate reading with soulmate psychics Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise can reveal any free will decisions your soulmate could made concerning your relationship. But dont’ worry, it will also reveal any free will decisions of your own that you could be making that you may not yet know about. Knowing what to expect in your soulmate relationship keeps you prepared for what is coming and keeps you on track as your soulmate works through their own issues.
Do you know when it is the right time to let go of a bad relationship? When should you throw in the towel on the one you love? When should you give up on a relationship that has gone terribly, terribly bad? When should you let go of the idea that one day you will have a relationship with a particular someone? Sometimes the wait is short for things to improve, change, or develop. Sometimes the wait can seem to take an eternity but the decision to wait for someone is a choice YOU make. You, like everyone else, have free will. Not every ex is coming back, not every relationship can rebuild, not everyone can and will change, and not everyone will want a relationship with you. There are some people who will not get the outcome they want. You may have no choice but to realize it is time to let go. If all relationships worked out, what would be the point of us all being here experiencing life lessons and spiritual growth?
There are some relationships that are just hopeless cases. They will just never work out. For these folks it is time to give up on the dream that they will get the relationship they want with the person they chose. They often resort to spell casters, psychics claiming to reunite lost lovers, psychics claiming they can stop divorce, and psychics who claim to be able to talk to the one you love and “work” on them to get you what you want. These clients often seek the “sunshine and light” readers who only give out good news. Everyone is coming back, everyone will get promoted, everyone will get the job they want, and everyone will have a wonderful relationship.
The “only good news” psychics are very dangerous, and the hopeless causes love them. They always feel better after paying to speak to a psychic willing to tell them fairy-tales to make them feel better. These fairytale ending psychics are not giving psychic advice, but enabling people to stay stuck in a hopeless situation. These psychics, because they only deliver good news are considered nice, friendly, accurate and supportive. They always make their victim feel better. But when their fairytale endings do not materialize and you don’t have the relationship you wanted and have spent a zillion dollars being told it will, they do not seem so nice anymore, do they?
Every psychic can be wrong once in a while, because only God is 100% accurate. We are referring to psychics who know damn well the client is desperate and the situation is hopeless, and are looking to use some kind words and fairy-tales to make big bucks. Because the clients situation is so desperate and hopeless, they will gladly read for them for a few hours on a daily basis.
But now what about your responsibility? There is some responsibility there too. Are you looking for a psychic reading to get the truth and some clarity, or are you looking for someone who will enable you (for a fee of course) to stick with your hopeless situation? We feel compassion for people who will only hear what they want to hear. These folks will not get what they want, but we must tell the truth as the reading shows it to be. YOU ultimately choose if you want to give up or hang in there. Patience is a virtue very few people have, so we understand.
It is not our responsibility to tell you when it is time to hold on, and when it is time to let go. That takes away your own responsibility from making the decisions you need to make for your life. Telling you it is time to let go would take away your own free will. Not all readers do that, and not all clients want the truth. What do you want? Do you want fairy-tales to keep you going a while longer until you run out of funds and have lost thousands of dollars on spells, candles and meditations while some shmuck pretends to talk to your loved one? Or do you want the truth so you can make the decisions you need to make to get on with your life, end a dysfunctional relationship and gain the personal power and empowerment you need for change.