Valentine’s Day without a soulmate can make many people feel depressed, especially if they have been single for a while or have recently ended a relationship. They see happy couples all around them, ads for Valentine gifts all over the media, and wonder why they are spending Valentine’s Day without a soulmate. They wonder how many more Valentine’s Days will pass before a soulmate enters their life and they no longer spend Valentine’s Day alone.
It can be both frustrating and depressing. You have gotten your career on track, taken good care of yourself, have your finances in order and feel the only thing missing in your life is a stable soulmate relationship. Well where the hell are they? What is taking so long? Did they get lost?
As we have discussed numerous times, soulmate relationships are not just about romance, but learning life lessons and growing as individuals as well as a couple. You may believe 1000% the time is right to meet your soulmate but the universe may not. Being unable to control if and when your soulmate shows up is a hard pill to swallow. People do not like waiting in general, especially when we feel we are ready to go. When a soulmate does not show up for you, you feel as if the universe is abandoning or ignoring you. Some people wind up very angry and bitter about it and end up being angry and God or the Universe.
It doesn’t seem fair and you don’t think its fair. You see the commercials of blissful couples celebrating Valentine’s Day together and want to smash the television to pieces. The stores have been flooded, in many cases, since the day after Christmas advertising red, white and pink goodies for their loved ones. Even go to the grocery shopping is not a safe haven for your emotions as their entrances are flooded with Valentine’s Day goodies, flowers and stuffed animals. There seems to be no escape.
All of this over the top, in your face, Valentine’s Day over-commercialism, makes many people feel like they are a loser, not good enough or being punished in some way. The way to deal with all of this nonsense is by putting it into perspective. First of all, the universe doesn’t create soulmate connections for the sake of Valentine’s Day. Valentine’s Day was created in Victorian times, not by the universe, so it really is not their concern. The universe is also not here to be Cupid and just put together blissfully happy couples. That’s not really their job.
Soulmate relationships are usually tumultuous, and in many ways a series of tests. These tests are HARD. And if/until both soulmates pass them, there is a lot of drama and a lot less romance. You have to earn the happily every after. Valentine’s Day is often referred to as a retail holiday which has nothing to do with a spiritual connection. Remember it only lasts for 24-hours, and most of the people receiving Valentine’s Day tokens, gifts or flowers from their ‘loved ones’ are doing so out of obligation, threats, and the over-commercialization of a day that Hallmark rakes in the $$$- cha-ching!!!
For soulmates that get it right, every day is Valentine’s Day. Don’t lose hope, just don’t focus on the Valentine’s Day you may be spending alone, because there is always next year. Keep your chin up and keep the faith that one day you will be with your soulmate on Valentine’s Day! These years, do something to special for yourself and celebrate YOU!
Soulmates don’t grow on trees. Of course most people would like to meet their soulmate, but many don’t understand soulmates are not exactly easy to find. First of all, they are not everywhere, you can’t just go pick one up at your local Walmart. Your soulmate is one grain of sand on a huge beach, so of course, if you decide to put your energy into finding yours, it could take a while.
The universe created a soulmate for you, and will, of course, create the time and place for you to get together and begin your journey. Finding a soulmate can become frustrating because many people expect the universe to create a soulmate for them, but they want to decide where, when and how they meet. It doesn’t work like that. It is not up to you, it is up to the universe.
Think about it, many people don’t believe in soulmates, so it stands to reason they are not looking for them. Does this mean they will never meet a soulmate? Of course not. They are going to meet a soulmate regardless of whether they want to or not. This is why so many people feel blind sided when they meet one.
They were not looking for them and they probably didn’t even believe soulmates could exist. Their soulmate often manifests in their lives at a very inconvenient time for them. Why? Because the universe has its reasons, and when they want soulmates to come together, they put them together. There is always a reason why soulmates meet when they do. It causes both soulmates to take a look at what is not working for them in their lives.
One, or both, of the soulmates could be in previous relationships that have run their course and must come to an end. It could be to take a different career path, or to focus more, or less, on their current job/career. Another reason is to break bad relationship habits, otherwise they will just wind up in one dysfunctional relationship after another.
Friends and family may have created a toxic environment and the soulmate enters to help them break these ties that are holding them back from happiness and their life purpose. So when a soulmate enters, something has to exit. These exits, whether they are people, or ways of thinking or behaving, bring tons of drama and resistance with them. In many cases, only a soulmate connection can give each individual the kick in the pants, or the inner strength, to create those changes that would otherwise go unchanged.
Soulmate connections are rare and you don’t have hundreds of them to choose from. Just because you have a strong pull towards someone does not mean they are your soulmate. That pull could just be a strong physical chemistry, which is often confused with a soulmate connection. Although soulmates have a strong physical chemistry, not all couples with a strong physical chemistry are your soulmate.
You may be strongly attracted to someone because something is missing in your life, and that part of you has remained dormant for a long time. When it awakens it can feel really powerful and shake your life up. Does that mean they are a soul mate? Not necessarily. It could just be a strong attraction you have to something that you lost, or never had. There can be many instances where you meet people you feel a strong attraction to, a crush on, love, infatuation, or have special feelings for. They won’t all be soulmates, and it is important you don’t put the soulmate label on the wrong person.
Check our other article: Stop Trying to Make the Wrong Person Your Soulmate
Are you tired of waiting for your romantic partner to get your relationship on track? You may be ready to hit the gas and ‘go go go’, but your partner has their foot stuck on the breaks. Patience is a hard thing to come by, and when you are waiting for the one you love to make a move, make changes, or step up to the plate, the wait can be excruciating and frustrating. We understand that you may have reached your limit and are tired of waiting.
Perhaps you have been involved in an affair, and waiting for him to end his marriage. Men often get into affairs because they want an affair, not to leave their wives. They want a relationship outside of the marriage but have zero intention of ending that marriage. They do not always share this with you because most women would not even let the affair begin, much less waste years of their lives involved in one. Are you tired of waiting for his marriage to end and wonder if it ever will? Is it time to cut your losses, or does he truly intend to get a divorce to be with you?
Perhaps your are waiting for your guy to propose or discuss commitment with you? Have you been dating someone long-term (or are currently living with someone) and wondering when they will pop the question? A psychic reading will reveal if a proposal is coming, or if he is avoiding the marriage issue altogether. He may be planning a proposal that you are not aware of, while you are pissed off thinking it will never come. Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise will help you calm your temper before you blow up, especially if a proposal is in the works. They will tell you if he is satisfied with things the way they are and has not even given the idea of marriage a second thought. Some men think of marriage in the abstract, like “I will get married someday” but they are not putting a time frame to it.
If he has told you that he never wants to get married and you are hoping he will change his mind, you could be fooling yourself. Not every man will get married someday. Women tend to think if they are the right girl and he loves them enough then he will settle down. They think he has not considered marriage simply because he has not met “the one”. That is not always true, and a love psychic we will be able to tell you if he will ever be ready, willing and able to commit to marriage.
You have had a break up and cannot eat, sleep or think straight because all you want it to work it out and get back together. It is driving you crazy waiting for him to see things the same way and want to reunite. Sarah and Sophia will be able to tell you in there will be a reunion between you as well as provide insight and guidance to try and help you speed up the process.
You may be in an internet romance where he has all the power. You are always available to talk but he is not. He comes on strong but then pulls back. He disappears for days, weeks, or months. He has put off spending time, in person, time and time again. You feel such a connection to him, yet he holds back. You are tired of waiting, but what can you do? Sarah and Sophia Elise will reveal if this internet romance will ever get off the ground or if it is time for you to let go.
You may be involved in a long distance relationship and have wondered if it will go anywhere. You are tired of waiting for him to have more time to see you and to discuss the possibilities of one of you relocating. Sarah and Sophia will be able to see if this long distance relationship is a dead end, or if it is worth the wait.
There are so many scenarios where a woman may find herself waiting on a man to get what she wants. One of the best ways to deal with your situation when you are tired of waiting, is to talk to us for clues, answers, clarity and guidance. We will guide your path so that you can achieve what you have been waiting for, it is attainable, as quickly as possible.