A synchronicity occurs when one of life’s little meaningful coincidences that are placed in your path. I remember once I needed to find someone to come and repair a few shingles on my roof. I had no idea who to call. While driving I had to stop at an intersection and stopped just to my right was a truck with an advertising magnet on the side with the name and phone number of an independent contractor who did roof repair. I just smiled, grabbed my phone and stored the number, grateful that what I needed was placed in my path. When we are aware enough to see them, we see our lives are filled with meaningful coincidences, synchronicity, we have created in the spiritual to manifest in the physical.
A synchronicity is created when people, places or events are brought into our lives to help us evolve. A synchronicity can highlight something going on in your life where you may need assistance. And I needed help with my roof and I trusted that they Universe people put the right person in my path at the right time. He fixed the roof for a reasonable rate and I have never had a problem with it. Was he a soulmate? No. He was just placed in my path at the right time to take care of a need I had expressed to the Universe and the delivered.
There are times though when someone could confuse a synchronicity or as a soulmate relationship. For example, lets say you meet someone who really touches your soul. You have a lot in common, like the same music and have some other things unique to your relationship. This person is in and out of your life like one giant boomerang. There is no contact for a year or so, then BAM! you cross paths again at Starbucks, the grocery store, the local flea market, or wherever.
This person seems to keep coming back into your life over and over again. You being to feel a destiny with them, of course you would, because they keep coming back like a bad weed in the garden. But is this a soulmate relationship? Or just one synchronicity after another to keep you stuck on the karma wheel? More than likely it is just a string of meetings brought together by synchronicity. Your paths keep crossing because you do have something to resolve with this person who keeps disappearing from your life. Do you let them cross your boundaries when they reappear in your life? Are you so happy to see them you ignore the fact they disappeared numerous times without reason, explanation or closure? If so, perhaps it is time to shut the roller coaster down. Perhaps the reason they keep reappearing is because you have allowed them but the lesson is to shut the door once and for all so you can grow and evolve in a new direction and make yourself truly available for a soulmate relationship to enter your life.
For example – you meet someone who interests you and touches your soul. Through synchronicity – that person seems to come into your life over and over again. You begin to feel a destiny with that person. You begin to think with your heart instead of your head as you imagine a connection to them because you keep crossing paths. You connect with that person on some level, certainly, but not at the soulmate level, even though there is karma there. There is a karmic lesson to be realized certainly but not one that will involve your heart, mind and soul to the depth a soulmate life lesson will.
In some cases the karma between the two people is positive – but in many cases you have attracted that person into your life for a learning lesson whether you are aware of it or not. You may not have a soulmate contract or soulmate agreement with that person, and therefore not officially soulmates, but you have them in your life for a reason.
Sometimes we can be confused as to whether a strong connection we feel to someone is a karmic relationship, soulmate relationship or just synchronicity. Do you wonder if a current relationship in your life is a synchronicity or a true soulmate relationship? Perhaps it is a karmic relationship you have with someone but unsure of the nature of the karma that exists between the two of you. Stop the confusion now with a call to either Lady Sarah or Sophia Elise who are both soulmate, twin flame, karmic relationship specialists. They will help you see past the confusion, find the lesson in all of this, and empower and encourage you to take the right course of action for the ultimate evolution of your soul.
When will I meet my soulmate? We hear that question so often. So many people want to know how they can find their soulmate, when they will find their soulmate and where they will find their soulmate. The best answer we can give to the “When will I meet my Soulmate?” question is…stop searching, stop looking and stop seeking. Do you remember the Buddhist proverbial quote, “When the Student is ready the Master will appear”? It is very similar with soulmates and soulmate relationships. When your soul is ready to meet, have a relationship and the lessons for personal growth and expansion that go with a soulmate relationship, the soulmate will come into your life. So basically when the soul is ready, your soulmate will come into your life.
So what exactly can you do to be ready to meet your soulmate? As previously mentioned in other posts, Is Life Incomplete Without Your Soulmate, the best way to meet your soulmate is to work on yourself. In working on yourself, either through meditation, personal therapy counseling, self-help books, personal growth seminars or studies, lectures, going to school or anything that causes the soul to expand and grow, you show the Universe (God, the angels, the archetypes, the Divine Source, Spirit) that you are ready to grow and evolve. When they see this, the likelihood of your soulmate entering your life increases exponentially.
When you are doing your own personal work, growing and evolving spiritually, as well as maybe intellectually and emotionally, you are creating the space for your soulmate to enter. If you life is cluttered with a too busy schedule, too many social obligations, too much work, gym time or volunteer work, you are sending the message out to the heavens that you are just too busy to work on yourself. Your life is too hectic for spiritual growth and you just don’t have the time to meet someone new, much less a soulmate to begin a soulmate relationship. De-clutter, de-stress, and focus on yourself and what you want in your life. If it is a relationship, great then put that out there to the universe. If it is a new car, then put that out there too. Heck I am have seen some guys get so overwhelmed with their new cars, you would think they were the soulmate relationship of their dreams.. but I digress.
Regardless of what a lot of people think, soulmate relationships are here to teach us about life and about love. More than likely unconditional love is the greatest life lesson soulmate relationships can bring to us. We must consider the ascended masters ( Jesus, Buddha, etc.) came to bring and teach unconditional love to the world and they had some major hardships to endure also. Likewise with your soulmate relationship. Now I am not indicating you will be tortured and killed, and certainly not equating your trials and tribulations to those of Jesus, but you will have to endure some difficulties in that soulmate relationship to assist you in becoming a better person. And some of those trials and tribulations will be difficult. If a soulmate relationship is to teach you about unconditional love, they have to be. And by the end of it, you might feel like you are dying. But remember it is about change, transformation and becoming a better person and greater soul.
Your soulmate is not someone you can seek. Your soulmate is not someone who will seek you. You probably will not find your soulmate if you are looking for him (or her). Soulmates come together by destiny or fate. Only by stopping the search, focusing on yourself and working on yourself will your soulmate materialize. That is the fastest, surest, easiest way for your soulmate to show up in your life. Focus on you. Take a class. Do a project. Learn to dance. Take Yoga. Meditate. Take several classes. But do something that will help with your own personal growth that will be beneficial for you even if it takes longer for your soulmate to appear. Do it for the right reasons. Do it for yourself. Go through the growth. Become the person you aspire to be and then the soulmate will appear during that journey of personal transformation. And with it, will come some lessons to help you grow and evolve more toward your perfection of understanding and experiencing the giving of unconditional love.
So many people have also asked us when they will met their soulmates. It is not really a question of linear time, however. You will meet your soulmate when your soul is ready to meet, really according to divine timing, so to speak. You are brought together by fate and destiny to fulfill an agreement the two of you made, or contracted with each other, before you were born. That soulmate contract stands and you will meet in this life time in order to meet and achieve some personal goals and agendas you setup for yourself, as well as the goals and agendas your soulmate defined for themselves. This is what it is all about. Can your meeting be delayed? Sure. One of you could exercise your free will and make a choice or life decision that could delay your meeting but there is a certain binding to a soulmate contract that indicates you will meet during this lifetime.
Are you looking for your soulmate ? Do you long to meet them or want to know if you will meet them during your lifetime? Are you asking yourself “When will I meet my soulmate?” A soulmate reading with Lady Sarah or Sophia Elise can answer all kinds of questions related to your soulmate or twin flame relationship. Do you want to know what you must achieve or overcome so your soulmate can come into your life? Do you want to know what part of your own personal growth you might be missing that could be potentially causing the delay of the soulmate entering your life? What life lessons must you learn or what thing must you overcome so you can meet your soulmate? Sarah and Sophia are both 5-star relationship soulmate experts who can answer any of your questions regarding love, romance, relationships and soulmates.
Have you ever wondered what the difference is between kindred spirits, soulmates and karmic relationships? You probably have some relationships or friendships, male and female alike, where you feel a certain close bond with someone. You share many of the same interests, styles, colors, favorites movies and hobbies. You have many of the same attitudes and opinions about things. You laugh together, smile together and probably even cry together. You connect on many topics of conversation. You have a bond and feel very comfortable and at ease being around them. More than likely you are close friends, even best friends and you have a lot to share with each other. You feel a close bond with them because you are kindred spirits.
Kindred Spirits are earthly defined relationships although there could definitely be a spiritual component to your relationship. Additionally there could be some karma to work out with a kindred spirit but these relationships are not as karmically heavy as soulmate or twinflame relationships. The connection with kindred spirits can certainly be deep, especially if you have a very close friendship with someone. But for the most part, kindred spirits are relationships we formed after birth, during our adolescence and adulthood as we navigated around the earthly plane meeting people with whom we click.
Are you in a relationship and confused about whether or not it is a true soulmate relationship, karmic relationship or kindred spirits? Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are expert Soulmate, Twinflame and Karmic Relationships specialist who specialize in love and relationship issues. When you are in a soulmate relationship you have invested a lot of time, energy and emotion into that relationship. Sarah and Sophia Elise are here to help you work through your soulmate relationship crises so you can get back on the path to happiness and fulfillment.