We have received many emails as of late inquiring about the different types of soulmates. Clients have asked us during psychic readings what type of soulmate relationship they have. We found this question confusing because as far as we are concerned, a soulmate is a soulmate and not necessarily defined by a different type of connection. You can have a soulmate relationship with a pet, family member or friend. Not all soulmates are romantic relationships. These people wanted to know is what type of romantic soulmate relationship they had. They thought there were different types of romantic soulmate relationships.
Although to a certain degree that is true, there really are not different types of soulmates when it comes to romantic relationship. The couple defines their soulmate relationship and it really becomes what they make of it. It is not predestined. It is not out of their hands. They are given the gift of the soulmate connection to do with it what they please. They can use that gift to better their lives, and make changes and learn lessons. Or, they can use that connection to create complete chaos and learn nothing and make no changes. It is not pre-destined. It is not out of the soulmates control. They must take responsibility themselves for what becomes of their soulmate relationship and how it grows or fails.
For instance, one of the soulmates in a soulmate relationship may run and hide from the connection. They do everything possible to avoid the connection and their soulmate. They may even deny the reality of the soulmate relationship altogether. Is this predestined? Did the universe purposely put you in this soulmate situation just for you to learn something with no chance of success? No. The universe did not cause the person to run away, deny their feelings, or act like an idiot. It was up to the individual and they are responsible for their behavior. There is a chance for all soulmate relationships to work out. The universe does not set soulmates up in advance to fail and make you miserable, so stop blaming God. Just like every opportunity the universe brings to people, it is what the individual does with that opportunity that determines the outcome.
You may have found yourself in a soulmate relationship where your soulmate is making mistake after mistake. You may feel you are doing all you can but your soulmate is hell-bent on destroying your soulmate bond. Remember, your soulmate has the free will to screw up the unique gift the universe has offered them. But also consider they have the free will to turn things around just as easily. It just takes a the execution of a free will choice on their part. You may have to walk away from your soulmate or put distance between you until that time.
Not all soulmate relationships work out. But all soulmate relationships have a chance to work out. All it takes is two willing participants to make it work. We felt it was very important to bring some clarity to the confusion of soulmate types. There are many types of behaviors, connections and emotions that are similar to a lot of soulmate couples. Each soulmate couple is unique, but similarities between all soulmate couples do exist. We just wanted to explain that there is no type of soulmate that is destined to fail or succeed. The purpose of soulmates is to create change, and with that comes challenges and often drama. It is up to each individual if they create change, if they accept the challenges, and to keep the drama to a minimum.
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We post many soulmate quotes to our Soulmates Page on Facebook but thought it would be nice to post our favorite soulmate quotes on the blog. Did we miss some of your favorite soulmate quotes? If so we welcome you to post them in our comments section. Thank you and many blessings on your soulmate journey. ~Sarah and Sophia
Important encounters are planned by the souls long before the bodies see each other. ~Paulo Coelho
Happy is the moment, when we sit together, with two forms, two faces, yet one soul, you and I. ~Rumi
Love is no longer where soulmate attraction ends; it is where soulmate attraction begins. Karen Black
There is nothing better on this earth than a soul you can connect with on every level
A soul mate is not found. A soul mate is recognized. ― Vironika Tugaleva
Between two souls lies a single heart ~Maza-Dohta
In the vast expanse of infinity our souls come together and connect for a moment in time.
And then my soul saw you and kind of went “Oh there you are, I’ve been looking for you”
My soul and yours are the same. You appear in me, I appear in you. ~Rumi
Love is a meeting of two souls, fully accepting the dark and the light within each other.
Unfold my soul and you will find your name written on every petal ~Maza Dohta
A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. ~ Richard Bach
A soulmate is the one who will make you the most YOU that you could possibly be.
I have crossed oceans of time to find you.. ~Bram Stoker
“A soul mate is someone whose way of viewing life is not necessarily the same as yours but complements yours, so that there is not a compromise, there is a complement.” ~Paul Robear
A soul mate represents a karmic relationship that we have resolved: a deep conflict that has been settled, an obligation that has been fulfilled, and love that has replaced fear and anger.~Linda Brady
We do not choose who we love but rather, our souls choose for us.
A soulmate is the one person whose love is powerful enough to motivate you to meet your soul, to do the emotional work of self-discovery, of awakening.~ Kenny Loggins
Soul mates are locked at the heart and written in the heavens, promised to find one another when the time is right.
The soulmate is what we aspire to and like to understand about ourself, is what we deem to be perfection, purity, and endless love. – Sorin Cerin
Destiny and fate play important roles in our lives. Destiny affects our career, health, families, friends and our purpose in life. Destiny also plays a role in our relationships. Destiny will put us on the path of meeting a soulmate or even create the space to reunite with a soulmate. But just how much destiny is willing to play a hand in our relationships varies from person to person. It is a misconception to believe that all soulmates are destined to stay together forever, treat each other right, or even allow the soulmate relationship to unfold.
Destiny can bring two soulmates together but, the Universe creates the space for the meeting to happen, but it is up to the two soulmate individuals to do something with that soulmate connection. For example, if you meet a potential soulmate but one of you is in another relationship, the one currently attached to another is going to have to do some work to free themselves. Destiny may lend a hand in revealing how bad the other relationship is, opening their eyes to the reality of their situation, and encouraging them to leave. Destiny may also help that person be truly aware of how much happier they would be if they left their current relationship, becoming free to pursue you. What destiny cannot and will not do is brainwash them into leaving their current relationship, or force them to. Perhaps you have entered that person’s life to be the catalyst for change they need to free themselves of a burdensome romantic partner but the rest is up to them. That is where destiny has to take a backseat. Destiny can only do so much, the rest is up to them.
Destiny may bring signs into our lives to help us see the direction we need to go in. We may think it is time to forget about a soulmate and move on. But destiny has other ideas and bombards you with sign after sign, reminding you of your soulmate. You feel like destiny is playing a cruel trick on you when all you want to do is get on with your life. Destiny isn’t being cruel, it is trying to keep you from making a mistake or bad decision.
Everything happens for a reason. You should pay attention to signs, as they are often messages from the Universe intended to help guide you on the right path. Chance meetings and encounters are great signs and should not be disregarded. How you react and respond to those signs is up to you. Destiny may be bringing you back together to rekindle your soulmate relationship, but if you both act out or behave the wrong way, you will blow the opportunity. What did you learn during your time you were separated? That time was to be used wisely, creating personal growth to better be able to deal with a soulmate relationship.
Destiny has a power that we don’t. It can do things we can’t. But that doesn’t mean destiny will take care of everything. We need to take responsibility for our own happiness. It is part of your responsibility to the Universe. Destiny is your partner, and if you work in harmony with it, you will get the results you desire. If you do not, you surely will not.
Always be aware of the power you have in a soulmate relationship. Too many people feel out of control, as if there is no control over feelings, emotions, decisions and behaviors. That is wrong. The connection and love you have for your soulmate can either work for you, or work against you. If it is currently working against you, contact Sarah and Sophia to turn it around for the better.
Many times we are asked “How can I meet my soulmate?” If we believe in a truly limitless Universe, we must consider that the way our soulmate can enter our lives is limitless. Soulmate relationships are not something we create or find. Soulmate relationships are somewhat predestined or preordained, as a result of the karmic experiences we agree upon before being born. Soulmate relationships are not something we can seek while here on this earthly plane, but rather people who find each other when the time is right, as written in your soulmate contract. So it’s not so much a question of “How can I meet my soulmate?” but what is the Universe doing to bring them into your life.
When deep down in the core of your being you believe that your soulmate exists, there is no limit to the ways he or she can enter your life. ~~Arielle Ford
There is no How Can I Meet My Soulmate club or website. In reality there are not any meditations, visualizations or other metaphysical gimmicks you can do to draw your soulmate to you. You will either meet them in this lifetime… or you won’t. Remember this is something you agreed to experiencing before you were born so a soulmate relationship may not necessarily be part of you soul blue print for this lifetime. Please remember though that DOES NOT mean you will not have a fulfilling, connected, romantically intimate relationship for this lifetime. Actually, you may be better of in a romantic relationship that is not a soulmate relationship as it will not come with the challenges and difficulties associated with a soulmate partnership.
Now all this is well enough said but is there anything at all you can do to meet your soulmate? There are a few things that need to be in place for that soulmate connection to manifest in the earthly plane. First and foremost you need to be working on yourself. By this we mean not just floating through life and reacting to different things that happen to you. You must be focused on yourself. You must be growing, personally and spiritually and you must be taking a proactive approach to the evolution of your soul as you live on the planet.
Soulmates tend to find each other during their respective pursuits of their soul missions. ~ Linda Brady
Now we don’t mean that you need to involved with saving all sea lions or volunteering to feed the hungry children of Africa, although these are both worthwhile endeavors. We mean that you have to be focused on you and your soul’s growth. In other words, focus on why you are here on the planet, whatever that may be. For when you are doing this you are in perfect alignment with your soul blueprint and placing yourself in optimal positioning to meet your soulmate. Work on yourself. Work on your personal and spiritual development. This allows the Universe to see that you are working on your soul path and actually ready to have a soulmate encounter and experience.
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So many people seem to put their soulmate relationship under a microscope. When you put a relationship of any kind under a microscope it can actually put a choke hold on the energy of the relationship from moving forward. Is it really necessary to over analyze and obsess over every single action or word that comes from your romantic partner? Where does this need to closely examine your relationship come from?
We all must certainly understand by now that a soulmate relationship does have a certain amount of destiny or fate attached to it. If it is truly a soulmate relationship, as opposed to a mundane one, it has been orchestrated by greater powers than ourselves. The Universe, in their infinite wisdom, conspired and worked to bring you together, so would it not make sense to allow the Universe to work things out between the two of you, without you constantly obsessing over every little thing that occurs between you?
In a soulmate relationship there is a strong connection, and it seems that everyone we have spoken with wholeheartedly believes that. So if that connection is there, and the connection is strong, would it not make sense that it is strong enough to keep your relationship together and moving forward. On the flip side of that, if you are currently in a break or break-up from your soulmate or romantic partner, your belief in that connection should also be strong enough to allow you to believe that the Divine source will bring you back together. Daily obsession and over analyzing will only lead to your own personal misery.
When we put a soulmate relationship, or any other relationship, under a microscope, it shows the Universe that we have feelings of doubt, insecurity or lack of faith that things will work out. When we analyze everything our soulmate does or says, we are showing the powers that be that we may not have faith in them. What exactly do we mean by analyze everything? Here are some examples:
- My soulmate did not return my text last night, does this mean he is ending things with me?
- My soulmate liked some random girl’s post on Facebook, is he attracted to her?
- My soulmate forgot the anniversary of our first phone call, does he not love me anymore?
- My soulmate quit taking cream in his coffee, what the hell is up with that?
- When I try to talk about our connection, my soulmate gives me deer in the headlights look, is he not into me?
- My soulmate quit wearing boxers and went to boxer briefs instead, who is he trying to impress?
- We are currently taking a break, and I saw him favorite another girls tweet, are they dating?
- When I logged into instant chat last night, he immediately logged off, is he avoiding me?
Yes, these are silly examples, but they are there to drive the point home. By constantly analyzing everything, you put yourself in a state of obsession and constantly obsessing about your relationship is pushing negative energy at it. It creates doubt. It creates fear. It creates instability, not just in you, but also in the relationship. Sometimes there is absolutely no need for explanations into the actions your romantic partner takes. More often than not, their actions mean nothing. It is only your over analysis of them that turns them into something.
If you need help with your current soulmate relationship, Sarah and Sophia are here to help. Rather than constantly examining your relationship under the microscope, their detailed advice, guidance and psychic insights can provide answers you are seeking. They will not examine your relationship under the microscope, as that can become quite tedious. They will however, look at it from a higher perspective and allow you to understand the dynamics that are happening so you can stop obsessing and risk ruining the relationship.