Your soulmate may not be sure of his feelings. Why? When soulmates meet, the level of emotions that surface are like nothing they have felt before. Think about, how often in life do you experience a new feeling or a new level of feeling? How rare is that? But when soulmates meet, feelings they have been able to control and get a handle on are out of control and taking over.
Over the course of our lives we have learned how to handle our anger (some of us better than others), jealousy, depression and almost every other emotion. It was a process that took time and experience. When it comes to the emotions soulmates experience there is nothing for them to draw from. It is all uncharted territory.
They may have heard or read that this could happen to them, but when it does, it almost seems unreal. It makes no sense to them logically, they wonder what happened to them and why they are experiencing these intense feelings. Is it any wonder they are confused about how they feel? It’s not just men who get confused, women have the same reaction and often find themselves by the feelings they have for their soulmate.
Between denial and attempts to use logic, when a soulmate is unsure of his or her feelings, the relationship can take a serious downturn. Everything may have been going along swimmingly, and then out of nowhere they may tell you they are unsure of how they feel. Wait a minute. Wasn’t this the same guy that was expressing his feelings for you the entire time? Didn’t he just say yesterday how happy he was? Yup, same guy. The thing is, he isn’t unsure of how he feels, he just doesn’t understand it.
Your soulmate may not believe what he is feeling is real, or that his feelings will last. They came out of nowhere and were strong right from the get go. Many soulmates assume those feelings may lessen over time. Even if they don’t, they may fear the other person’s emotions do not match theirs. We cannot tell you the countless amount of times clients have asked us if their soulmate has the same feelings they do!! They cannot believe how much they feel, so of course it is hard for them to believe someone could have that level of emotion for them. All of this leads to confusion.
Your soulmate may need some time away from you to sort out their feelings. It is very difficult to hear your soulmate express they are unsure of their feelings and then distance themselves from you. Many people panic, worrying they will never hear from their soulmate again. They worry that their soulmate’s feelings will disappear during this time apart and that their relationship will come to an end. It is not up to you to convince your soulmate has feelings for you. It is also not your job to help your soulmate become more sure of their connection to you. Trying to do so will only push them further away and they will do everything to win that debate with you. Their feelings are for them to sort out, and the truth will come out in the end.