The soulmate relationship roller coaster may sound like a ride you want to jump onto.With all the ups and downs and twists and turns soulmate relationships bring, have you really prepared yourself for the ride of your life? Soulmate relationships are not for the weak of heart,
so you better buckle up, and get ready for what, at times, could be a very scary ride.
At the beginning of a roller coaster ride, the ride takes you up higher and higher and higher. Nothing scary about that, right? The same thing happens when soulmates first meet, recognition of souls occurs and the emotions go higher and higher and higher. But then, out of nowhere, comes the plunge downward. Now here is where it gets scary.
On a roller coaster ride at an amusement part, the plunge downward lasts only a few seconds. In a soulmate relationship the plunge downward, more often than not, lasts way too long and goes to lows one would never expect. So how can you ride the soulmate roller coaster and keep from screaming or getting sick to your stomach?
Well, the first thing you need to do is prepare yourself as best you can for the downward plunges that almost always happen. In the amusement park you strap yourself in for the ride and hold on for dear life and you need to do the same in a soulmate relationship. You have to ground yourself. You have to remind yourself that you share a connection, and you need to hold onto that connection for dear life.
Let that connection give you strength, and keep you centered. Don’t let that connection lead you astray. Don’t let that connection give you the excuse to do things you wouldn’t normally do, or put up with things you normally wouldn’t put up with.
Soulmate relationships should be held to a higher standard than other relationships, yet for some reason, too many people lower their standards instead. You cannot expect to have a relationship on a high spiritual level if you engage in lower level behaviors. Set higher boundaries and be prepared to enforce them. Stand your ground. Don’t ever be afraid to do what you know is right.
You won’t ruin a soul mate relationship by doing the RIGHT thing. You CAN ruin a soul mate relationship by doing the WRONG thing. If your soulmate is doing the wrong things, don’t join in. Let them learn their lessons or you will learn, the hard way, your lessons. Learn to ride out the bad times, and don’t get impatient. The bad times will pass if you don’t add your own energy into them. If you do, you are ensuring they will last a lot longer, and do a lot more damage. It is really not worth putting yourself through a lot of pain that could have been avoided by staying strong.
Your best bet is to let the roller coaster run its course, while you hold on tight (even if you have to white knuckle it at times) until you and your soulmate are back on solid ground.
You may also want to check out our article: Soulmate Connection Both a Blessing and a Curse