Long Distance and Soulmate Relationships
When it comes to soulmate relationships, distance is not really a consideration. In soulmate relationships no distance is too far. Nor is the concept of time or space, for that matter, but that is a topic for a another posting. When two people are destined to be together … they will be … no matter what blockages or obstacles come in the way to try and delay or prevent it. This is one of the primary concepts that defines soulmate relationships. Sure the fact that the two of you like the exact same shade of purple are important *not*, it is overcoming the challenges and life lessons thrown at you during the course of your relationship that make it significant.
Lets say, for example, you are in a relationship with Bob who has been recently given a promotion and has to move to Timbuktu. You are clearly upset about him leaving because you know the two of you are soulmates and you were looking forward to further establishing your life, and your love, with him. You consider begging him not to go because your relationship is so important. He momentarily considers not moving because the connection you share is so important to him. But he has to move, this is his livelihood and his job; and it is not appropriate for you to offer to support him (that is probably your life lesson in all this anyway – remember soulmate relationships come with life lessons).
Now you have to stop and consider for a moment. The two of you met, more than likely under strange circumstances, you were not really that physically attracted to each other in the beginning (but there was just something about him) but when you are together you are firing on all pistons, connecting body, mind and soul. You have planned your future together, you have talked about having children together, you know everything about each other and just KNOW that you are the ONE for each other. So what he moves? This does not mean it is the end of the road, just that the dynamic of the relationship will probably have to change for a while.
Callers have asked us “Well if he moves away won’t he forget about me?” Probably NOT. “Well if he moves away and loses my number and does not know how to reach me then I will probably never hear from him again”. Really? Well lets look at your situation and find out if that truly is the case. If you are supposed to be together, come hell or high water, no matter how long… and no matter how far… soulmate relationships will be together.
We leave you with this — the ultimate soulmate relationship – Daniel Day Lewis telling Madeleine Stowe that HE WILL FIND HER — and just think he did it without the internet!