Is your soulmate driving you insane? Has your soulmate’s antics sent you over the edge where you feel like you don’t have an ounce of sanity left? Was your soulmate once a normal person but is now acting so insane that you cannot understand them no matter how hard you try? Has your soulmates behavior gotten so out of hand that you feel like you no longer recognize them?
It’s not exactly a rare situation if a soulmate is driving you insane. When you first meet a soulmate, you can feel a little out of touch with reality. You are feeling things you never felt before. You cannot get that person out of your head. You feel like a different person and you act like a different person sometimes as well. But that is a good insane feeling.
When your soulmate brings soulmate drama and soulmate games into the relationship it becomes a negatively insane mess. It is like being dropped off a high building. You were feeling on top of the world, then suddenly, the rug is yanked out from under you and you free fall. Your soulmate may try to take everything they ever said to you back, or say the complete opposite. Suddenly you feel as though you are living in Opposite Land. Their behavior changes and does a 180 and your find yourself thinking “Who IS this person?”.
It’s as if you have been transported to an alternate universe and it is driving you insane and stressing you out. So what do you do?
The first thing you need to do is realize you are not alone. Don’t try to read too much into it or obsess about it. You cannot rationalize their irrational behavior, and don’t let it make you act irrational too. Try to be the voice of reason. Don’t fall for their ridiculous words. Don’t feed into their negative behavior. Don’t become a soulmate detective. They are flipping out right now, and now is not the time for that. Don’t involve yourself too much, because it just fans the flames.
Pull back and let them spin out of control all by themselves. There is no need for you to go to crazy town with them. It’s hard to sit idly by and it is easy to let it drive you insane. You can’t convince someone in a state like this that they are wrong or feeling the wrong things. They are trying to figure this whole thing out, and unfortunately they want you to come along for the ride. You can’t. Come up with excuses to not have long talks when they are talking irrationally. Become very “busy” when they want to talk in person when you know it will end badly.
Don’t jump at the chance to debate with them thinking you can change their mind. You can’t. They will be too busy trying to convince you and themselves that what they are doing now is sane. Don’t fall for it and don’t accept it. You don’t want this behavior and the words that come with it to become habitual or a pattern. Just because they are your soulmate does not mean you have to accept their behavior.
It is up to you to let them find their groove. It is not up to you to explain it all to them or to teach their lesson. It is up to you to keep your head held high and not join them in lower vibration behavior. Let them learn from your example. Don’t immediately let fear and insecurity creep up so that you do the wrong things.