Is your soulmate cheating on you? Do you suspect but don’t have proof that your soulmate may be cheating with someone else? Soulmate relationships are different that most relationships, but that doesn’t mean a soulmate won’t cheat. As a matter of fact it is one of the top ten soulmate relationship issues. It is sad that even relationships with a connection like soulmates have a problem with infidelity. So what should a person do if their soulmate is cheating on them?
Of course the first thing anyone is going to feel is anger and betrayal because your soulmate has been lying to you. . You feel both anger and betrayal because you still love them. You may be ready to walk away for good, and if you are, that is your choice. But what if you still want to give the relationship a try?
The only way for it to work going forward is for your soulmate to be willing to do whatever they have to do to earn back your trust. That means they first have to admit to the cheating. Then they have to cut all ties to the person they were cheating with. If they say they are confused or don’t know which one of you they want to be with, let them go. Don’t be there while they decide, and don’t compete to be the one they choose. That will do nothing but make them lose all respect for you, and teach them they can have both of you at one time.
It may be the hardest thing you ever do, but you have to take a stand. Your soulmate needs to know they need to decide, and decide now, or it is over. The worst thing you can do is beg them to choose you or plead your case why they should choose you.
If your soulmate is willing to cut ties with the person they cheated with, they need to give you access to both their phone, email, social media, you name it. There need to be total transparency. They have to understand that you are going to want to keep tabs on them and that you are not going to trust them for a long, long time. This will also require setting boundaries in your relationship.
They caused this lack of trust, and they must put forth the work to create trust again between the two of you. This will help you in your process of forgiving them. You more than likely will never forget they cheated, but you may be able to forgive them. You both need to understand that even though you will try to put it behind you, the subject may come up again when triggered.
Soulmates, like any other couple, can survive cheating, but they cannot get past it unless both are willing to put in the effort. One person cannot fix the damage that cheating causes. So if you caught your soulmate cheating on you, take the right steps to either walk away for good, or stop this destructive behavior for good.