Are you and your soulmate in an on-off relationship? Does your soulmate come and go out of your life without warning? Do they return acting as if nothing is wrong? Are you having an on-off relationship with your soul mate because someone else is in the picture? Does your soulmate end your relationship for no good reason only to come back months or weeks later begging for another chance? Have you heard promises from your soulmate that they will never leave again only to break that promise repeatedly? Are you sick and tired of your on-off relationship with your soulmate? Have you asked yourself why do they keep doing this?
You would be shocked to learn how many soulmates are in an on-off soulmate relationship. Sometimes because of the intense connection and flood of emotions a soulmate will need a cooling off period. It can get so overwhelming to them that they feel they need to get away for a while. Some may even do so in an effort to hide their emotions or deny them all together. Some soulmates meet when one, or both isn’t technically single. Regardless of the state of their current relationship, they have not yet ended it when their soulmate enters the picture. Meeting a soulmate when they least expect it can be very unsettling for some people as they are not ready to embrace changes they need to make to maintain a soulmate relationship. Some didn’t believe in soulmates and were not prepared when they met a soulmate partner. When a soulmate encounter occurs, they are caught off guard and many get spooked and run away.
It is very difficult on the soulmate left behind when a soulmate leaves the relationship. Every time it happens they go through tremendous grief and stress. They believe the relationship is over, and that their soulmate is gone, yet hope there will be a reunion. The pain, stress, and depression is often excruciating. They attempt to move on but experience a feeling that there is unfinished business, and secretly hope their soul mate will return. Friends and family stop offering support once to the on-off soulmate relationship if it has become too much of a roller coaster. This can leave someone feeling even more alone and isolated. In those hours of isolation they wonder why their soulmate doesn’t feel the same way they do and start to believe love was not reciprocated. If a soulmate remains in another relationship or leaves them for someone else, they think it is because they care more for the other person.
An on-off soulmate relationship is very destructive and maintain that cycle for years, or decades, if nothing is done. The damage done during these cycles is astronomical. The abandoned soulmate usually reaches a point where they can’t take it anymore, and in order to save their sanity, they begin to shut the door. If you have found yourself in an on-off soulmate relationship you need to understand the importance of putting an end to it yourself. Not the relationship, but the cycle. It will not be easy and expect it to take a long time. But until you start doing something, don’t expect the cycle to end on its own, because it won’t. They won’t stop it, you have to.