Can you have two soulmates at the same time? Doubtful. What exactly would be the purpose of having two soulmates at once? The universe is not playing some sick joke as a matchmaker, the universe creates soulmates and brings them into our lives for the sole purpose of growth and to create change for the better.
Soap operas may have story lines where a character has to choose between two people they allegedly love. But in real life, we always want one of them more, it is never equal. A soulmate is a divine connection, and the emotions run high and deep. You don’t get involved with a soulmate because of their status, wealth, or physical attributes. You are connected to them, and want to be with them, regardless of their strengths or their weaknesses. Sure, you can be attracted to two people at the same time, but not in the same exact way. There is always one you want more than the other.
We hear from many people who believe they are torn between two soulmates, and in every case we have encountered, there actually was not two soulmates. The person had a problem identifying a true soulmate from a false soulmate, as often happens.
Sometimes we can be attracted to the wrong kind of person. It happens all the time and more frequently than you think. In the movies, it is easy to crush on the bad boy or the bad guy. There is this romantic notion of being able to change a bad guy into a good guy all because he loves you. At that rate, why not just stick with the good guy in the first place? Why go through all that work to try to get someone to change, especially when change is not guaranteed?
You would be amazed how easy it is for people to confuse their intense attraction and desire for the wrong kind of people and a soulmate. They are not always one in the same. Sure, your soulmate could be a bad guy but not all bad guys you are attracted to are a soulmate. You also should look inside yourself and ask yourself why you are attracted to the wrong kind of person for you. Perhaps that is the lesson and growth the universe is throwing at you.
A soulmate is such a rare occurrence in one’s life time that it simply would not make sense for someone to have two soulmates at the same time. If you had a soulmate that would not get their act together, make changes a grow the universe could surely bring you another soulmate down the line. But at the same time? No, it just doesn’t make sense.